Goals Will Change — Purpose Won’t | The Black Coffee Club

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And that's me really not know you know that surface level? Man? How you doing? Nah? How you doing? You feel me? Like? How you how you doing? Like, how you doing, How are you really doing? Saluting my brother dark game, he said, Man, hashtag thought master. You feel me mastering my thoughts, mastering my thoughts one at a time. King Vonnie said, he blessed man. I'm feeling blessed too. Man, I'm feeling blessed too. Yeah, I'm feeling I'm feeling I'm feeling really hopeful. You know what I'm saying. Locked in You know what I mean? That locked in kind of blessed you feel me, Yeah, I'm feeling that that real, that real walking when it with intention kind of blessed man. Salute to you, saluting my brother Jew Titan in the building. What's up with you, Drew? I see your family, man, Salute to the whole entire family, everybody that's in the building. We'll get to the roll call in the second. But once again, the most intentional morning circle on the planet. It's all about it's all about starting that day off feeding yourself. You understand what I'm saying. It's all about that soul food, feeding yourself first. My sister Kia said, I'm choosing gratitude, growth and peace over everything every trip, every trip. Yeah, it's funny because I woke up this morning and I was making sure that I had the show scheduled and posted and everything was tightened up. And I've seen that. I seen you posted that this morning, and I said, ooh, that's the first thing I see. Ooh, it's Finna be one of them. It's finn be one of them. But you see the title. Man, We on this purpose, on this we on this clarity of purpose, man, and we on it tough. And I'm not letting off. Goals will change. Goals will change your goals will change your purpose, won't your purpose won't. Yeah, So let me ask you something. How many goals have you set in your life? Just we're gonna start off off the bat. How many goals have you set throughout the totality of your life? How many goals have you set? How many goals have you set? I had a goal to finish school. I got a goal to graduate. I gotta go to buy this car. I got a goal to do this. I got a goal to do that. How many goals have you set throughout your life, your entire life, the totality of your existence in this realm? How many goals have you set? You feel me? Now? How many goals have you set that don't matter anymore? You feel me? How many goals have you set that don't matter anymore? You know you set goals when you were seven years old that don't matter anymore. You understand what I'm saying. You wanted to learn how to skip rocks across the creek? You feel me, Well, if you childish a hell like me, that still matters because I still you know, I'm a rock skipping mother, So I'm if it's water and it's some rocks, I'm trying to skip rocks. Please believe that? Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah. But we got different body goals, different money goals, different career goals, different relationship goals. You understand. Yeah, Now watch this in the chat. I'm gonna this is a magic trick, So I'm gonna start. But in the chat, I want you to write the word facts all caps facts. In the chat. If your goals from five years ago don't even fit who you are now, goals from five years ago don't fit who you are now? So what is it twenty twenty six? So the five years ago would have been twenty twenty one. What March twenty twenty one. How many of you are had goals in March of twenty and twenty one that don't fit who you are today? Yeah right, facts all caps in the chat. If that applies to you, you feel me. I had goals in March of twenty and twenty one, sitting in this exact space that I'm in. The space was arranged a little bit differently because we now. Have the studio. Tada, you feel me. We redid the studio, but I was in the same area, sitting right here. Had goals don't even matter no more. They don't even fit the person I am anymore. The goals don't even fit the person I am anymore. Yeah yeah, facts, facts just five years ago, let alone twenty five years ago. Because I got that too, you feel me? I got that? Two? What the fuck? Am about to be forty eight years old in a couple of weeks, not even like a week, gonna be forty eight forty eight? I'm clean as a whistle, though, but I'm about to be forty eight. I got goals that don't even matter anymore. They are not who I am now. Yeah yeah, everybody writing facts exactly. Goals move, but your purpose doesn't your purpose doesn't. And if you don't understand that distinction, like if you literally don't understand that distinction, then you'll constantly feel unstable. You will constantly feel unstable. Big Drew said, I still want to be an astronaut, Lo keto, who you telling you can be? Now? Bro? With AI and everything, you can be an astronaut, bro shit, because the fact of the matter is, the astronauts ain't astronauts. I mean, you understand what I'm saying. The astronauts ain't astronauts, so we can still be astronauts. Hell, go outside in the Bronx on deck, Bro, you be shit. Go out outside the Bronx on deck at nighttime. It's out of space like a botherfucker. If I go to downtown Dayton after eleven pm, Bru's outer space, some aliens walking around, Martians, you feel me starships and rockets. I'm trying to tell you, if you don't understand the distinction between your goals and your purpose, then you will constantly feel unstable. Let's get it one. So I'm hustled harder than the moment. I'm a feast on these streets. Got a revolver, I Toald for these niggas trying to take me off the block where I points up daily sit Dailey's. Out the bottle of smoke. Many already know how we coming, y'all already know how we coming. Man, Oh man, it's a new day, man, one time for the most intention no morning circle on the planet. Yeah, salutes the brother King Vonney eighty six in the building. What's up what you brough? Saluted tifty two in the building. What's going on with you? Love? Salute to my sister Nella the great akaki A Allen in the building? What's up? What you love? For an ounce sniper in the building. What's up with you? Brought? Man? I just realized how good that feel? You feel me? I just realized how good they do they feel? Man. Yeah, it's a new new day. Yay May in that building. Hey, Hey, hey, hey, Kevin Dunbar the scholar in a building, what's up with your family? Salute to you? Saluting my brother Brent Fox in a building, he said, the most intentional audience in the world. Salute family, he said, on the move, but still supporting and I appreciate you. Broke saluted my brother MJ's total health and well it's in Richmond in the building. What's up with you? 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Trill, I told you, I told you. I told you I forgot to see you pictures. It's now, what's up with you? Ab? Salute to the family. What's going on with it? Man? Shout out to you. D Man junr A building? What's up with you? Broke suiting my brother d Man Junior A building. Trill. I told you, I told you it was gonna get we was gonna get the studio done. Man. I told you. I told you, Bro, I told you I gotta see you pictures. Bro, I do that as soon as I get off of here. Old school Winston Lee in a building. What's up with you? Holled me. Salute to you. Salute to Pittsburgh, big dog in a building. What's up with you? Man? Salute to you. Salute to my family. Man, let's get to a saluting my brother Blue Ah Man saluting my brother Jre Titan in the super Jack. He said, whoa, I just saw the super Chat family less work, Hey man, they let me back in, bro. Finally do you understand what I'm saying? They finally let me back in, Saluting my brother Jrew Titan in the super Chat Man at Gone, Gone, Gone Gone. Salute to my brother Man. Thank you so much. Man, I really truly, genuinely appreciate you. Man. I do, I do, I do, I do Man, Thank you, Bro, I appreciate it. I do. Man. You're trying to mess me up this morning, Bro, like I ain't. I'm not messing I'm not messing with you, Drew. You feel me, I ain't messing with you. It's about goals. It's about goals, man versus a purpose. Salute the boat Mason Man, Boat Mason al in the super chat. Man. I think you probably got another name, Bro, but I'm messing up because you know, they decided to just show y'all a salute to boat Mason al Man. Thank you family. I appreciate you. I appreciate you so did did. Let's define it clearly, so goals. When we talk about goals, goals are targets. A goal is a target. They're specific, they're measurable, they're time bound. You understand what I'm saying. Lose twenty pounds by the end of April. You understand what I'm saying. I want to make six figures with content this year. I want to start a business. I want to buy a house. You feel me. I want to. They are specific. There's absolutely nothing wrong with goals. Goals are wonderful. Goals are wonderful. Nothing wrong with goals. But goals are tools. There are not your identity. They're tools. They are not your identity. I hope that makes sense. Saluting my brother trial Will in the super Chat Man, he said, let me chip in, let me chip you in a little bit, my brother, you have inspired me in a way that money can't repay. Salute bro, and let's work. Saluting my brother trial Will Man. Thank you, Bro. I'm proud of you, Bro. What understood needs no explanation. Man, y'all ain't finnna have me up here hugging myself today. I ain't going you feel me Saluting my brother though, Man, I love you man, and I appreciate you, my brother Drew, I love you, man. I appreciate y'all for sure, for sure, And what's understood needs no explanation. Our goals are tools, you feel me, but they are not an identity. They are not an identity. Saluting my brother Stormy be man, Man, my big brother, Stormy be me. Hold on, let me get over here. And the thing he said, Man, don't leave me out last salute to my brother's stormy be Man. I really truly appreciate you, man. I love you, bro. Thank you, thank you, thank you, thank you. Yeah, and here it is. They think this shit is all about boxing and all about talking about boxing and again and bicker and nah, this is deeper. It's deeper, way way, way way deeper. Your goals are tools, but they're not your identity. They are not direction, you feel me, They're not meaning. And here's a trap. Here's a trap. When a goal changes or fails or expires, you feel lost. You understand what I'm saying. Think about it. So you have a goal to You have a goal to get monetized on on YouTube, right, you have a goal to get your YouTube monetized. So you work and you work and you work, and you get to the point and you get monetized, and then you get monetized and you like shit. Now what. You have a goal to get a car, and you work and you work and you work, and then you get that vehicle that you want. You feel me, you get that vehicle that you want. Then once you get your vehicle, you're like shit, now what you feel lost? There is a lost feeling if a goal fails or it expires, or you actually acquire it. There's a lost feeling that people tend to fall into after that, which is why they fall off. That's why a motherfucker can lose one hundred pounds and then gain it back because you lost a hunter. And what you feel lost? Why do you feel lost? You feel lost because you built your identity on the target. You built your identity on the target. You build your identity on the target and not on the direction. I hope that you feel me. I hope that that helps you build your identity on the target, like on the actual target. You built your identity on the target and not on the direction. It is a direction that you were adding in. You lost focus of the direction, you feel me, and you built your identity on the target. And that is why when you get to the target and you acquire the target, or you hit your target and you get what you got, or you get what you was looking for done, then you feel lost because the focus was on the actual target and not the direction. All right, purpose, This is where it get good because your purpose is not a number. You feel me. Your purpose is not a number. Your purpose is not a number. Your purpose is orientation you feel me. Purpose is orientation. Your purpose is gonna ask answer some very specific questions for you. It's gonna answer what kind of a person am I becoming? You feel me? Me saying ah, man, I want to get this. I want to get this brand new car you feel me is not answering what kind of person am I becoming? You feel me? It is a target. A I need to get a car. I need to get a van. Like really, in real life, one of the things that I need to do is I need to get a new work van. You feel me, gotta get another work vehicle. That doesn't answer what kind of person am I becoming? You feel me? But my purpose will answer what kind of person am I becoming? Your purpose will answer what impact do I care about? What impact do I care about? What impact do I care about? Your purpose will also answer what values guide my decisions? Like? What values do I have that actually guide my decisions? My brother Juw says, celebrate the road travel you'll respect it more. That's a fact. You got a ky you gotta shd y'all know I'm sick. Man, I get down and I kiss the yellow brick road. You feel me? I will get down on all fours and I will kiss the yellow brick roll. And I love it. You feel me, I love it. I'm in an absolute love affair with my journey, an absolute love affair with my journey. Right, wrong and indifference, peaks and valleys, lumps, bumps, successes, highs, lows. I'm in an absolute love affair with my journey. Yeah, I appreciate it. I'm built for it. You understand what I'm saying. God endure shit that people will crumble up and die about. I endure it. I eat it. That's a whole other conversation. Man, y'all go have me up here hugging myself. So the purpose of your purpose will ask answer those three specific questions for you. What kind of person have I becoming? What impact do I care about? What values guide my decisions? Purpose is the compass? You feel me? The purpose is the compass, and your goals are coordinates. Goals are coordinates. They the coordinates are going to change depending on the direction. The coordinates are going to change, but the compass doesn't change. The compass doesn't change. My brother truer Will says, purpose are the bricks that pave the rod to who you dreamed of becoming. You feel me coordinates changed, but the compass does not. Saluted my brother Stormy be Man. He said, yeah, I'm over here too, saluted my brother Stormy be Man. Over on the rumble. You feel me my rumble inspiration, he said, Junior, you need to get on over the rumble. Said yep, you're right, bro, you don't rumble, saluting my brother Stormy be Man. Mm hmm. My sister kid Allan said, I am too. I love I love how I'm evolving. I love how you evolving too, Sis I do. I love it. I love it. And then you inspire yours around you and your loved ones to evolve too, because it's crazy as hell that I can look at you and then I see the evolution. It sists too, y'all. Ain't gonna have me up here hanging my uhh, hugging myself. You feel me. I ain't gonna have me up here hugging myself today, not today. Salute the lot. D I see you love Yeah, she said, she said, you said that just like Stormy. Huh. Yeah, that's what you do. Man. When you you gotta monitor, you watch the greats. Yeah, watch the grats you feel me. That ain't no different than trying to shoot Jordan's fade away. You watch the Greats, you feel me. I watched the Greats. Yeah, that pull up, fade away, that pull up, that drive to the right, pull up over greg Elo. Y'all studied all that shit, that five four three two, even a celebration. Yeah, I studied the Greats. Mm hmm. Yeah. So the compass doesn't change. So example, your goal might be to lose thirty pounds, right, but your purpose might be to honor my health and longevity. You understand what I'm saying, Like y'all want to lose thirty pounds, that's the goal, But optimately, I need to be here for these kids. Understand what I'm saying, And I like, bro, I got to be a I got to be a pop pall. You feel me like I got to be a pop pall to the babies of all of my children, Like all my children. I refuse for my children and my children's children is to run around here and not have a relationship with they pop pall. Yeah, So I gotta lose these thirty I gotta lose these thirty pounds because I need to honor my health and longevity. So if you miss the thirty pound target, you don't collapse because the direction still remains the same. Yeah, the destination still remains the same because at the end of the day, the truth of the matter is, or the direction still remains the same. Sorry, the direction remains the same because the truth of the matter is, it's the direction over the destination. Period. Every trick, it's direction over destination. We're going that way with it. Yeah, we're going that way with it. So the reason why, let me see why, goals remain, but your purpose will change. Or excuse me, I said that backwards. Goals change, but your purpose remains. Right, So let's talk real life. Let's talk real life. My brother, my brother. My brother said, I'm grateful for my purpose. It pointed me in direction of all the success I've achieved and keeps me away from complacency. That ain't it? You feel me? Complacency? Ain't it? My sister she Heartstat said, you got this jay slut to my sister she Hartstat, thank you, love, I appreciate it. La Ladie says, Junior is tall. He's gonna be walking around like grint Hill. Now I won't look like grint Hill, I look more like a I don't know. I have to think about it. I had to think about it to think about it. But let's talk real life. So your goals at twenty five won't look like your goals at forty. You understand what I'm saying. At twenty five, man, I was a brand new father. You know. I was trying to literally just figure these things out and to make my way to be able to take care of this baby that I created. I was still playing ball. I was still trying to just work my way through that whole thing. But at twenty five, also, I don't have the same priorities that I have at fifty. At forty, I'm sorry, shit about to be forty eight, I don't have the same priorities. Understand what I'm saying. I have more children. I have to keep futures in my mind. Right, I have to keep thoughts of the things that they're going to be able to do. Right, have the things that I'm trying to build for the reasons that I'm trying to build them, Like, there's just a lot of things. So my priorities have shifted. Your responsibilities expand you feel me your understanding of life deepens. Yeah, all of those things change and they shift, but your core values. See the thing about me, And I'm gonna talk specifically of myself for a second, Like it don't it don't change. You understand what I'm saying. My core values, my integrity, growth, my service, leadership, peace, my faith, my family, the pursuit of excellence. That shit don't expire. That shit does not expire. You feel me. If your life is really truly built on purpose, when a goal dies, you pivot and you keep trucking. You feel me. This is Junior, the true signing off at the end of the die, at the end of the day, I'm a howborn player made And if you don't know anything else about me, at the end of the day, I gotta keep pushing, baby. You pivot and keep pushing. You pivot and keep pushing no matter what. You pivot and keep pushing. And if your life is built only on goals, when a goal dies, then you spiral out of control. And that's the difference. You feel me, Like, that's the difference. So you have a goal to get married, right and you get buried and you're in an entering entering into marital bliss, you feel me, and then something happens and you're no longer married. You spiral if that was the if it was all about the goal, and your life was totally built on the goal, then you spiral. Salut to my brother man, I ain't finna start laughing at y'all. Drew Titan over on the rumble, he said, we're here too, Yes, lord, your life will spiral if it's all only built on a goal. Right. And that's why we see like I'm don't make me get all on you. Don't let don't make me get all on you on your porches, because I will. I'll get all on your property. Don't make me do it. Sorry, y'all letting me clear my thoat. Don't make me get on your property, because I'll do it. That's why when we see when women and they get divorced, I'm gonna pick on the sisters for a minute. You see women when they get divorced, what do they do. I'm back out here, I'm doing me. You feel me, and it's the it's the it's the it's the divorced woman playbook. It's the divorcee woman playbook. You get back out there, start moving around with your homegirls. You cut your hair off, you get on your bald head, the whole shit, and then you get out here, in and out, moving around, you getting You're gonna get you some more stripes or scuffs or scuff marks, if you will me. And what do y'all do? We get back, We get back out here, we start moving and grooving. We don't do nothing but go check old traps. That's where you start. You go check your old traps. You understand what I'm saying, Hey, kid said chill bro chill bro All right kid, just because you said chill, I'm a chill that ball head whole shit, did it? Huh? I said that ball head whole shit. Hey man, that ball head whole shit. Boy got get the women folk by the day, get them by the throat. First thing they do is cut their hair and get out here and get the fucking they get on that ball head whole shit. What you see, d what you see mm hmm. And fellas, go get you go, get you a go, get you go, Get you a bucket heead one of the old bucket heads that you grew up with. The First thing you do, go check your old trap. You lame ball because life was built on the goal. And when the gold pairs, you spiral out of control. That's the difference. That's the difference. But if you look at purpose, and I look at purpose as a filter, and this is where the shit gets practical. Feel me, this is where it gets practical. Kid. I ain't messing with you, nella, I ain't messing with you for real. Ya you know, I ain't laying You know, if it comes out of my mouth, it's just show enough, stump down, hallelujah gospel, at least the way I see it at first. That's the first thing women do. Cut their hair and get out here, and boy doing torquing on TikTok and shit bald head, old shit going around and hey man, say mm the fellas go out here and go get rid in them old traps. Go get the stickiest of the icky. You feel me. Go somewhere and they be doing it. Shit, be preposterous. You go over old girl house, You chilling over there. You know what I'm saying, Her baby daddy in the penitentiary. You go over there, and you over there drinking, drinking the drinking the baby's wick juice. You even win it got you a woman on wick. You go over there, you over there drinking the baby wick juice, chasing the chasing, your here to see with the baby's wick juice. He's a dirty bastard. He's a dirty, dirty, dirty motherfucker. Can I y'all want me to keep because like we can really pause the purpose conversation and I could just talk. We could just talk that talk if that what you want, We could talk that talk. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah yeah yeah. Kids said, get the post and yoga yoga poses and ship Yeah. I called them. I called it the yoga poses. I call them a sunshine Yeah, a social so shine. I got a girl so good if you throw it in the air and it turned into sunshine, YEAHLL can dom them. Y'all be posting them so them sunshine them sunshine pictures. Yeah, ab said, Bro said preposterous. Hey man, we can get it. We can get to it. We can we can get to it. Man. Purpose has a filter. Now, let's get practical. Purpose is a filter because before you say yes, before you chase something, before you commit, you have to ask yourself, bruh, does this align with who I'm becoming? You understand what I'm saying? Like where I am now twenty twenty sixty, and I'm talking about Junior. I'm talking about me practically, where I am practically in my life. Do you realize everything has to go through my purpose filter? Everything? Before I say yes to anything, it has to go through and run through my purpose filter in real time? I have to ask myself these things excuse me? I have to ask myself does this align with who I'm becoming? And that question alone will eliminate probably sixty percent of your confusion. My brother storm me be me in a minute ago, say man, imagine he said, Imagine your priorities at sixty is what he said. And it's funny because I called Stormy when I've told y'all this story, and Stormy dropping stropping, dropping food off because it was a storm coming and he dropping food off to his baby and the grand babies. You un stand what I'm talking about. I can only imagine my priorities is sixty. Bro. My brother Trull Will said, purpose makes you look at things differently. Value becomes more important. Adding value to yourself with a purpose is a powerful weapon. If use wise. Do you feel me? You feel me because when you really truly think about it. Shit is about value. That's a part of my affirmation, my daily affirmation. Bro. I say that I am working hard to become a blessing from the Great Spirit, like every day, and I say that I am open because I'm not available for turmoil, any turmoil. I'm not available for it. But I am available for all of the I say the I'm giving y'all my affirmation. I'm available for the love and resources that are attached to the value that I provide the universe. And I need the universe to show me how good it gets. It's about to get spiritual in here, fucking with me. Yeah. Purpose is a filter, kid, I ain't lying everything that come across kids desk. You gotta run it through that mother filter. You gotta run it through the filter. How does this line up with the person with the purpose, the person I'm becoming? So when I'm sitting there at my at my cousin's birthday party and my cousins is faring that ship up and they try to pass, and I'm looking, how does this line up with the person with the purpose? Person I'm becoming? I got my kids. In the event you understand what I'm saying. We then gave honor to my cousin, and we showing my cousin love and everything, and we there were kicking it and then the women go to the middle of the floor somebody, some of them grandmama's, and shit, they start cocking they nasty ass over and start torking. You feel me? What do I do? You remember on a the color purple when an old girl said you just a fat old hef for ha and she ended up slapping Sofia and the motherfucker packed up his good tarsan time to goat. That was me grabbing my kids. They twirking time to goat? You still what I'm talking about? Because this is not that shit went through my purpose filter, nah, because it's time to go. Me packed my folks up. We gotta get out of here. They cocking their nasty asses in the air and wiggling, and I don't want that shit hold my kids. I don't want that shit on my kids. This is why I'm busy when y'all motherfucker's called me. How do we go from it? And this I'm telling, I hope my cousin in here. If I'm lying, I'm flying blaing a butt naked because prior to that, they just sung fucking lift every voices, sing. They just sung the Black national anthem in that bitch. Then we go from singing I'm just talking about my family, they talk about yours. They go from singing. She Harstas said, long off. I will in a minute, but you gonna get this first. Y'all gonna get this. They sing, lift every voice and sing. Then they go from lift every voice and singing. My cousin plays something. I forgot what he played. My other cousin, my cousin the DJ. He played the music and mind you. So my cousin turned fifty. So it was a theme. So a lot of people dressed like old folks and shit, they kicking me, you feel me? Sisters got on old folks granny clothes. They got depends on some of them and went the whole yard. They take their ass out to the middle of the dance floor, kicking their shoes off, being their ass over and start, why why, why, why, My baby's looking, my son's intrigued. You feel me saving and he chip off the old block, which was a chipoff the old block, which is a chip off the old block. I just ran you through my lineage. I'm talking about me and my daddy, and my daddy's daddy and my daddy's daddy's daddy. You feel me, A long line of extraordinary men, and we got the curse some my sons looking at these asses, and I said, oh Lord, we gotta get out of here because I ran it through my filter. Kid, that don't fit with who I'm trying to become. You understand I'm talking about. It was a point in time that I thought twerkers was a national treasure when I was like twenty five. But my priorities have changed. You in me, all that damned gy rating all over the dance floor is unnecessary. All these sexual inn windows is unnecessary. Get thee behind me, Satan, ain't both more so with you, homie, salute to you. Ain't seeing you a wise? You're a cock. J reed. You thought I wasn't gonna give you nothing. Nah, So I ran the twerk I ran the tork off through my filter, and I had to get out of there. You understand what I'm saying, because I'm I don't know if I'm gonna sit there, keep get my drink, start throwing dollars like I don't know but we gotta go, y'all. So I packed my family up and we got a roads taying to go. Your purpose is a filter before you say yes, before you choose something, before you commit. Before I commit it to pulling out these dollars, you feel me boxing and barbecue said. He said, boy, you sound like you're approaching fifty because because I am yeah, yeah, before I reach these and put these dollars, I had to run it through my filter. That don't align with who I'm becoming. You understand what I'm talking about. My daughter is My daughter is a is A is a young basketball prodigy in the making. You feel me, and she's a genius. Man, I just shud we gotta. I gotta keep tarking out the arsenal as long as I can. I gotta keep talking out the arsenal as long as I can. You feel me, my singer man I ay man say man, hey man say man man. I gotta keep that out. I got to keep that out of it. I got to keep that off his radar for a little while longer until he can control it. I gotta give him. I got to drop more game on the ground for the hungry hand. So he learned how to how to navigate this world, navigate this space in the world full of twirkles, twerkers. You feel me because they throw that ass, then put their hand in your pocket and next thing you know, you feel me. You a sucker. And you know what people do when they see suckers, They do what they supposed to do. They let them. Can't have my son running around here looking like a lick. Got to got to drop more game on the ground for the hungry hand. So I had to pack my family up and get them a pot of dell. Yeah, but that question along, does this align with who I'm becoming? Kid? That question eliminates half for your confusion. Most people feel overwhelmed, not because they not even because they don't have enough clarity. You understand what I'm saying. They are overwhelmed. You are overwhelmed. Let me stop, let me. We are overwhelmed because we say yes too easily. Ah. Yeah, you easy with the yeses, You easy with the yeah. You got extra friendly yeses. Yeah, you real loose with the yeses, and you say yes without filtering. Yeah, you say yes without filtering. Your purpose is gonna reduce the noise around you. Trill will we almost fifty, baby be forty eight? In the week we almost fifty, baby, we almost fifty. Yeah. Purpose reduces noise. Purpose is gonna reduce the distractions. Purpose is gonna reduce comparison, which is the thief of all joy. You understand what I'm saying because I'm so busy being you feel me Like I am so busy and master and being junior that I don't give a fuck. To quote Kat Williams, I don't give a fuck about what you're doing, as it does not relate to you, to to what junior is doing. You just stay what I'm talking about. I am so busy being me that I cannot concern myself with you being you. You feel me. I can respect you. We can exchange, especially those relationships that I have like this one where we come in here and we exchange ideas. You feel me. We can exchange. But that's pretty much where it got to be because I am so busy being me that I don't have time to compare myself to you. I can't do it. I'm not gonna be able to do it. Most people feel overwhelmed because they don't filter, and they say yes without filtering. Filtering, I'm telling you, activates your purpose, and purpose reduces the noise distraction. It reduces comparison because you're not chasing everything. You feel me you're moving in a direction. So when I see people and they over and they over in toulom and they then took a trip over there and they in Mexico, and I'm like, man, that's cool, bro, that's cool. But I'm in a direction. You understand what I'm saying. I am in a direction. I am. I have wrote a book. In the book hasn't a companion that's a calendar and included as a self mastery blueprint, and we are all about improving and I have to promote that. I have to do that work. You understand what I'm saying. I launched the first ever black owned boxing publication in which I'm the editor in chief. I have to I gotta do that instead. What I'm saying, I am so busy being me. I'm raising contributors to the next generation of thinkers, the great thinkers of the world. I'm so busy being me that I don't have time to fixate on you being you. Let's do a real quick audit, because I gotta get ready to go my head over the jew Tians and bring out a property value today. So answer to this, honestly, answer to yourself, what goal are you currently chasing? Right now? You got a goal? What goal are you currently chasing? You got that goal in mind? Okay, cool, some of y'all might have to run this back. What purpose does that goal serve? What purpose does it so? Does it serve? Okay? Then ask yourself if that goal disappeared tomorrow, If that goal disappeared tomorrow, with your direction still remain the same, with the direction still remain the same, that's the test, you feel me. If losing the goal destroys you, then it was never purpose. It was never purpose. If the goal destroys you, then it was never purpose because your purpose still remains the same. The purpose still remains intact, you feel me. Now, Here's what I want you to remember getting out of here. Here's what I want you to remember. Goals are seasonal. That's just the truth. Goals are seasonal. Like we just said, when I was twenty four twenty five, ain't the same goals when I was forty? You feel me, when I was forty, ain't the same goals that I'm about to be forty yeight, it's not the same goals. You understand what I'm saying. Goals are seasonal, purpose is structural. Goals are tactical. Goals are tactical. Purpose is foundational. Stop asking what's my next goal? You understand what I'm saying, and you got to start asking what direction am I committed to? Regardless of the outcomes? What direction am I committed to? Regardless of the outcomes. I am committed to mastering myself, regardless of the outcomes. Regardless I am committed to mastering myself. I'm committed to that, regardless of the outcomes. And when you build on purpose, then you stop panicking when plans change, because that's the one thing we know about life is shit changes. Plans change, conditions, change relationships, change circumstances, change things change you feel me. You stop panicking when plan When plans change, you stop feeling unstable when shit shifts around, when circumstances shift, you stop feeling unstable, and you become anchored, and you're a in your purpose, your anchor in your purpose. You become anchor man. This is the Black Coffee Club, most consistent morning circle on the planet, the most consistent Morning circle on the planet, Nah, Man, were not chasing. Were not chasing targets over here. We ain't chasing targets over here. We live with direction. We live with direction, and we do it on purpose. Man. Salute to everybody that shows love to a Black Gentlemen Groom and Company. The show is brought to you by the Black Gentleman Grooming Company. We do have a line of all natural handcraftic grooming products specifically with you in mind, so be sure to come check us out. Www dot the Black Gint dot com. That's www dot the blackgent dot Com. Sou to my sister Thrive and Glow with Joah, I don't think I spoke to you. I think I seen you in there and then speak I'm sorry, Sue to my sister Thrive and Glow with Joe. Salute the DP rocket five one three. What's up? What you call me? Felix Neon is? What's up with you? Bro? But Www dot the Black Gen dot com and that's www dot the Blackgen dot com. Salute to everybody that has your Miniemanyal system. Man, go get it. If you haven't done so, go over to the Miniemanyo dot com. Www dot the minutemanual dot com, or you can go over to the Junior Truth dot com and click on the book. It'll get you there. Get your book, get your system. There available in UH print form or they're both available digitally. So go get your go, get your books UH and your system. Man. Salute to you all though, thank you all so much. Man. This is Junior the Truth sanding off Man. Where we had a hell of it. We had a hell of a tan today, had a hell of a tan today. 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