People With Purpose Make Better Decisions | The Black Coffee Club
The Black Coffee Club™March 10, 202600:52:4248.25 MB

People With Purpose Make Better Decisions | The Black Coffee Club

Purpose, decision-making, self-mastery, life clarity, discipline, alignment, and focus — this Black Coffee Club conversation explores why people with purpose make better decisions and experience less confusion in life.
Many people struggle with decisions because they lack direction.
Purpose acts like a filter.
When your purpose is clear, your decisions become simpler because you know what aligns with your values and what doesn’t.
In this episode JuniorTheTruth™ explains:
• Why purpose simplifies decision-making
• How purpose acts as a filter for opportunities
• Why people without purpose drift into distractions
• The one question that can simplify most decisions
Clarity doesn’t come from thinking harder.
Clarity comes from knowing who you’re becoming.
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Man, Man, I guess we better at some point. I guess we better get to it, you know. What I mean? Uh, talking about what we came to talk about. I don't know what you come to do. I don't know what you come to do. The most consistent morning circle on the planet. Man, y'all today, Man, we having another simple but powerful conversation. You know, I like my I like myself. I like my I like my I like my conversations. Man like my conversations, like I like my women. Simple you feel me? Simple? Like it? Simple? Yeah, plainly put, People with purpose make better decisions. Let's bicker. Matter of fact, I ain't even hear the bicker. Man. Y'all go argue. Go argue with your cousin. You feel me, go go argue with your cousin. People with purpose make better decisions. Can we agree to that? If we can be clear about anything. You comb through your life, comb through your experiences, comb through your time here on the planet, no matter how old you are, no matter how young you are, comb through it. Came through your own experience, came through your own relationship with life, cam through it, comb through with your own relationship with life, and you will conclude that people with purpose make better decisions. Let me ask you something this morning once again. Think about it. How many decisions do you make in a day? How many decisions do you make. In a day? You making a decision right now. Some of y'all made a decision. All of y'all made a decision. You made a decision right now. Everybody that's listening to me, you just made a decision. You made a decision to come in here and kick it with me and engage in this conversation. Tiffy two said, too many I make too many decisions. Yeah, King Finney said, living on purposes so fulfilling. Man, it's a beautiful thing. How many decisions do you make in a day? What to eat, where to spend time, what to say yes to? What's a You make hundreds of decisions easily every day, and most people feel overwhelmed because they make decisions with no direction. Is that's That's pretty much sums up the show. If you didn't know, the fuckers feel overwhelmed because we make decisions with no direction. Where is the direction? Where is the direction? We are making decisions after decision after decision after decision after decision. With no direction. We're talking about purpose, and people with purpose make better decisions. Yeah. And ultimately, at the end of the day, what we're in search of is that favorite word of mine, clarity. Clarity. Clarity. Make this shit clear. When you go to when the old folks go to church, say what they say they say, make it plain, make it clear. If you can do anything with your life, you should be in pursuit of making it clear. And ultimately, in the pursuit of clarity. In the pursuit of clarity, we get better direction, and better direction and better direction and better direction, which then positively impacts our decision and ultimately, when it's all said and done, clarity is what your purpose will provide. A right Let's get it one. So I'm hustled harder than the moment. I'm a feast on these streets. Got a revolver. I talk for these niggas trying to take me off the block where I pointed up daily sit baileies out the bottle of smoke. Man, it's a trouble man Tuesday. Man here at the Black Coffee Club. What it is, indeed a new day, y'all know how we do what we do? What we do? Man, King Bonnie in a building? What's up with you, Homie, Salute to you the dirt game boss in the building. He letting it be known. A man. Hit that light button, hit the subscribe share. Hey man, that feel good. It's almost therapeutic every time I hear this. Saluted my sister, King Howland in the building. What's up with you? Salute to my brother a me in the building. 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You realize like you can't you really can't be like, you know, everybody's everybody's solid and everybody everybody's not solid. A lot of people pretend to be solid, right and you realize, like you can't be solid and you can't spot a sucker. Do you know that? Like you gotta be able to spot a sucker a mile away. I know this is coming out of left field for some of y'all, But you gotta be able to spot a sucker like you can't like you can't be like I spot a sucker a mile away. You understand what I'm saying. And when I say sucker, I mean somebody that's pretending to be solid but not solid. You feel me. Man, It's twenty twenty six, and you gotta be You gotta get to a spot in these suckers in your life, you feel me, and you gotta start categorizing them accordingly. And I don't care who they are. Some of y'all are you know some of y'all siblings are suckers. You feel me. Some of us you feel me. We got kin folk that's suckers. We got people that are very close and near and dear that our heart, but they not solid. And you gotta be able to spot when somebody's not solid, and you gotta be courageous enough to handle them as such. And I don't know why I'm supposed to say that, but I was. I was sick. You feel me to tell you that mass stop is you can't be solid and not recognize people that's solid and not that's not solid, and not categorize them and treat them as such. Stop treating people that aren't solid in your life like they solid because because they're not, and that, truthfully, that has a negative impact on your solidarity. You feel me. Stop treating people that are not solid as if they're solid, and I'm talking about your real life, man, Stop stop doing it. Do not give people space in your life where solid people supposed to be if they're not solid. Stop It's twenty twenty six. It is imperative. You understand. Solid people are going to be essential to survival. We're grown. Like we're grown. You got to have solid folks around you, not suckers. And if you have suckers around you, it's time to be real and it's time to start categorizing them as such. Y'all not responding in the chat, so you're starting to scare me, you feel me? Kid said thank you that message his home on on some on something serious. I'm being dead serious, kid. I rolled past Jefferson High School yesterday. Kid, thought about you Tickle tickle our smooth roll past Jefferson High School yesterday. Listen to me, y'all, this is not the time to have suckers around you. Suckers will ruin your whole everything. They will ruin your life if you have them around you masquerading as if they solid. Solid people are essential to the soul. Solid I got. Solid people are essential to the soul. Man. I've been on that lately. Man, I've been putting. I've been I've been categorizing people, boy time, stamping them and putting them where they need to be. You can't play around. You can't play around with me running around here masquerading like you solid and you ain't solid. I ain't going You understand what I'm talking And I'm talking about decades of motherfucker's not being solid. Naw, you gotta, you gotta, you gotta get off from around because you gotta get off from around me if you ain't solid, because where I'm going I need solid people around. Yeah, And you gotta spot, you got you gotta spot somebody is not solid. You gotta spot on a mile away right now. Some of y'all, y'all got people that's trying to get you. Might not they might not even have that type of relationship with you, but they trying to get close to you, and they ain't solid. And you know, your spidy senses is tingling you know they ain't solid. You gotta spot that, seleut the box in the barbecue, seven on four, Joe, what's up with you? This ain't the time to be having people around you that ain't solid. Man. That's all I got for you. That's all I got for you. And you gotta take inventory. You gotta make a list, you gotta check it twice, and you gotta know who's solid and who ain't solid. I ain't saying you gotta hate the solid people. I ain't saying you got to abuse them. I ain't saying none of that. But what I am saying is you cannot allow space in your life where solid people should be for folks who ain't solid. Yeah. Yeah, you can't do it, Donnie. You can't do it, bro, you can't do it. I would rather have that space empty than it has somebody in that space that ain't solid. Nah. Man, it's over with. It's over with, and this is the This is not the time. So I don't know if y'all need to change your batteries in your in your in your you know what I mean, in your in your sucker detector. I don't know what y'all need to do, but you need to do it. Because this ain't the time to be having suckers around you. No suckers allowed, you know what I mean. That's why when y'all see me, I'm always with my kids. I'm always with my kids because man, I'll be with my babies. You feel me, yeah yeah, yeah yeah boxing the barbecue said in the real world, and virtually you feel me suckers suckers. Nah man, Nah, that's a fact, be about it. Forrest. People who ain't solid, bro, they get the squirming around me, man, they get the squirming, they get to looking, they get to shrinking, and then eventually they get to moving around. Nah. Man, you can't bring that shit around me. And you ain't solid. Nah, this is not the time of the world that have people around you that are not solid. No, no, no, And this ain't the time to be around folks who ain't solid. And that's that's respectfully, man. No, this ain't no disrespect in it. Some shit just solid, some shit ain't. Some folks is solid and they ain't and they ain't. And don't get me wrong, we all are capable of getting on some sucker shit. I catch sucker attacks. We all capable of getting on sucker shit. But it's different between catching the sucker attack and being a sucker. Man. Don't let that go over your head, Snaky, he're crazy this man. I ain't messed with this fool. Man. I ain't messing with this fool today. Yeah, Felix doing that says like people who don't got nothing going on, or like undercover hating stuff. Man, It's just it's it's for me. It's a lot of different things, bro, but it could be both of those. You understand what I'm saying. Like, I don't really concern myself to what people got going on as far as it doesn't relate to me because I'm so busy being junior. But that undercover hating stuff, you know what I'm saying. Weird, weird behavior, weird vibes, people acting weird about you, acting weird around you, just not being solid. You understand what I'm saying. Calling you when they need stuff and no other time, don't call you to help. Motherfuckers know you need help and ain't around, not to be seen, don't call a check up on you. Like all of that stuff. That's just stuff that's just not solid. You understand what I'm saying. And at the end of the day, Felix, the thing that I've come to learn is I know when somebody really rock with me, like I know when somebody really cut with me. You understand what I'm saying, Like people who come in here and listen to this every morning and come in here and really consume the content. And I understand, y'all cut for me, you feel me? So what ain't nobody that's gonna get And this is where solid people reside, So can't no suckers ease their way up in here? You see what I'm saying in my real life, like I know, who cut for me ain't but the select few. It ain't but a couple of people I can call that's really gonna be there. You see what I'm saying. But people, the things that we do is we make ourselves available to everybody, especially those of us that are chosen. And the fact of the matter, I can tell by the majority of y'all, the majority of y'all in here are chosen people, meaning you're like the rock in your family. You're the one, you are the person who has the. You've been chosen. You know what I mean when I say y'all been chosen, like you're the one. You the standout, and sometimes you the black sheep, sometimes you the outcast. Sometimes you just really ain't on the stuff that people are on. You feel me. But at the end of the day, you're chosen, y'all. Like, really, those people really resonate with me, like we really resonate with one another. You feel me. We connect on a different level. And so. You understand that what it is to have people around you who don't cut for you, like you're cuffing in King Fonnie said, got that glow like Leeroy Green. You feel me. So now you know what it is and this is not the time to have people around you that are not solid but masquerading is solid. No, you feel me? Yeah, don't do it, man, don't do it. People who delight and when things don't go right for you, I was just listening to a video today about that. Listening to a video about people who delight when things don't go right, or people who remind you of your mistakes, you feel me, or people who want to keep you in a category that you no longer fit in. You understand what I'm saying, Like you ain't running the streets, no, more so a mother that want to every time they see you, they want to remind you of what you used to be and what you was. Ain't nothing solid about that? If you not read signating with where I am now and what I am now? You understand what I'm saying? Remember when is an extremely low form of conversation. So when I talk to you, why when I talk to you? Every time I talk to you, you bringing up shit from when I was twenty two, twenty three? You feel me I'm forty, I'll be forty eight on son, I'm forty eight years old. You talking to me about some shit when I was eighteen killer? How lower form as if it's relevant today? How lower for former conversation? Is that understand what I'm saying? That leads me to believe that you're on an assignment you understand or. You are. You don't know me and we are not connected. Yeah, you gotta be mindful of that kind of stuff. So anyway, I saw that to say, once again, you gotta be able to spot a sucker. If you're gonna be solid, gotta be able to spot somebody that's not solid, and you gotta treat them as such. Most decisions for the average person feel hard. Why most people believe the decision making is it's difficult because life is complicated. You understand what I'm saying. The thing, life is complicated, so everything, all the decisions is just difficult. Everything's difficult. That's not the case, man, And to be honest with you, that really couldn't be further from the truth. It's not the real problem. The real problem is a person's lack of purpose. And when I say lack of purpose, I don't mean that you don't have a purpose. I mean that you are not connected to your purpose. What is your purpose? Stop letting me just say purpose without you really taking a look at what is your purpose? What is your purpose? Why are you here? Why did you get up today? You feel me? Why did you get up today? Why are you going to get up tomorrow? What is your purpose? So that's the real problem. Life's not complicated. That's not the real problem. The real problem is we have a lack of purpose and when our purpose isn't clear. Once again, let me pause, kid, that's a fact. Gotta limit your accessibility. I'm to the degree now people feel uncomfortable calling me, specially folks that ain't solid specially folks that ain't solid. You feel me. Saluting my sister Angie, and why is in the building, she says, to live fully saluting my sisters, thriving glow with y'all. Thank you, she said, just share on my community. While more people need this, they need to come on in. They'll get here. Thank you, Joe, I appreciate you. The lack of purpose, though, is the real problem. That's our real problem. And when our purpose isn't clear, everything looks important. Every opportunity feels urgent, every request feels like pressure. You understand what I'm saying, And so people say yes. We say yes to things that don't move our life forward. We say yes to things that don't allow us to press towards the mark, which is why Kia in twenty twenty six, you got to limit your accessibility, especially because you got something that's pulling on you that you got to complete. You feel me, Man, when I go into these spaces and I'm in one of them right now, obviously, like when I go into these spaces, man, I'm not accessible. Don't call me. I ain't coming. I'm not gonna answer. People say stuff like, man, you don't ever answer the phone. It's a running joke. I don't answer the phone, return text messages like I don't if it ain't like for real scheduled or an emergency, or if you ain't like my for real, like. Who I'm responsible for? Man, I ain't. I don't answer. It's a good chance you're not gonna catch me. It's a good chance you're not gonna catch me, So you gotta limit You have to excuse me to limit your accessibility. People are not like, I'm gonna talk about me, right because I'm I'm gonna talk about me, and I'm gonna talk about me in a way that's gonna offend a lot of people, right Because you can't just call me like I'm here. You can't just call me. You can't just send me a DM on Instagram. You can't just pop up in my life and get my attention and break me off my purpose. I'm forty eight, Cuz forty eight be forty eight on on a son, I'm forty seven in a whole pocket full of change. You can't just call me and while I you in my life and I'm gonna put down whatever it was I was doing in that moment, even if it was just sitting here and breathing. L you understand what I'm saying. You can't just come in and get in my life. And I know, in this brim of instant gratification that fucks people up, fucks people up, that they can't just call me in and then I answer them to stop everything I was doing something. Think about that for a second. You are in the middle of doing something, even if it's just sitting here listening to me talking. And so if a person calls you right now, they are interrupting what it is that you're doing. If they text message you right now, they are interrupting what it is that you're doing. If they email you right now, they are interrupting what you would. You can't any old body just interrupt me because I'm him Kiya Alan, you are her Thrive and Glow with Joe, you're her La Lad You heard Angie? Why is you heard? She harsh that you heard Tiffy two? You are her. I'm talking to the sisters fellas, y'all gonna have to get out of y'all live, but hopefully the sentiment, the sentiment resides with you as well. So any old body. Now, there are people who can call me and get me on the phone. There are people who can text me and get a response. But it's not just everybody. She harsh that said, I claim it as if it ain't already here. Not baby, it's already here, Like it's already here. You claim it and all of that too, But it's already here, like I'm already telling you, you her, it's already here. You bad as barbecue. Nah, y'all, pumpkin, I tell you my money. I hate y'all. Be trying to ignore y'all and y'all foolishness, be trying to ignore y'all. I hate pumpkins. Hate pumpkins. Godly, that's the that's the that's the transaction in the power world. You get you a pumpkin pie, man, thinking you finla make love to a sweet potato pie, and then you pull the skirt off that punkin pie is big old penis no thank you. With all due respect, man, you gotta have people who people have. Man, I'm telling you, like nah, man, you can't just give everybody access to you. Yeah, so I need anyway. Every request feels like pressure when we lack and we're not locked into our purpose and we say yes to stuff that move doesn't move the needle forward. And when we really are locked into our purpose, right, purpose really truly simplifies decisions because it acts. Like a filter. Yeah, I fit when you're locked into your purpose and your purpose is whatever your purpose is, whatever we've identified, right, And this is. Why we got to do this retreat. Cause I told y'all I was gonna have some information for the retreat by the end of February, and I ain't got it. But this is why we got to need a retreat, because I need to drag you motherfuckers in the room and I need to pull your purpose out of you, and I need to stick it on your forehead. I just got angry. Angry is not the word. I just get that consumed with passion. You understand what I'm saying, because y'all looking at me and nodding this shit in agreement. But then you don't understand what your purpose is. And so I gotta reach in your chest like on Indiana Jones, I'll pull your purpose out your heart and I gotta put that motherfucker on your faux head so that we can have our guiding LIFs, so we can stop walking through the world like everybody else, like zombies. We ain't zombies. You understand what I'm saying. We are thought masters. We are in pursuit of mastering ourselves. How we gonna master ourselves? And we don't know what the why the hell we hear? And that is why we gotta get together. We gotta go into a room, and we gotta close the door, and we gotta get to work, like we really truly gotta get to work. I'm talking about work. We gotta get to work. Well, why that just came over me? That way, your purpose acts like a filter. If it aligns with your purpose, then yes. If it doesn't align with your purpose, then no. It's that simple. Because it's that simple, somebody might call me and say, hey, bro, man, I got tickets to go see I don't know whoever. And I'm gonna say when they gonna say, man, Saturday, Saturday is a sports day. It's today I dedicate to running around, spending the sports and spending time with my family. That don't align with what I got going on. Man, it's a no. Yeah, it's a no. It's a no. Ken. You gotta see, the struggle is the struggle is not the struggle is the hard part is when we don't have people who we can connect with. You understand what I'm saying, who are purpose driven, because it's not gonna be a lot of folks that are purpose driven. Everybody's in zombie laying you feel me. So it's hard because you don't get around folks that are purpose driven. So when you're not around people that are purpose driven, it's difficult for you to connect and be locked into your purpose. And that's why this is so important. You feel me like, because this is the only conversation that we have every day where motherfuck is up here yelling at the top of day lungs. Purpose, purpose, purpose, purpose, purpose, Get on your purpose, your decisions. Purpose, purpose makes your decisions easy. Purpose purpose, purpose, purpose, purpose. Master yourself. Fuck fifty cent, fuck to y'all, Master yourself? Fuck did he news? Master yourself? The hell with what Trump talking about? Master yourself? Okay? Salute the mac of the South. What's up with you, homie? So your purpose, when it's used correctly, it acts as a filter. If something alies we feel aligns with your purpose, yes, If it doesn't align with your purpose, no, But you keep your purpose at the forefront and you have it on your forehead. You understand what I'm saying. Don't wear your heart on your sleep, wear your purpose on your forehead. So all right, let me break this down so we can make this practical and I can go purpose answers one key question, and we can reverse we can reverse engineer, kid, who am I becoming? Who am I becoming? Right? And once you know who you're becoming, decisions become easy. Once you know who you becoming, that's your who am I becoming? Decisions become easy. So if your purpose includes health, right, then decisions about food become easy. If your purpose includes family, then decisions about your time and where you spend your time and what you spend your time doing becomes easier. If your purpose includes personal growth, then decisions about your habits become easier. Purpose removes the confusion. Purpose removes the confusion. Yeah, So if we think about it on the opposite end, why do people without purpose drift? Here's the reality. The fact is, if you do not have purpose, it is it is. I can't even expec rush to you how much easier it is for you to drift because you're gonna. Follow trends you understand. You're gonna get pulled into a lot of bullshit conversations. You're gonna follow people's opinions. You understand what I'm saying. You're gonna jump on opportunities that don't fit you. You're gonna be pulled into pozi schemes. You understand you're gonna be pulled into You're gonna be pulled into a bullshit gossip. You canna be pulled into celebrity beef. You can be pulled into a whole bunch of bullshit, and that result is gonna be a life full of activity that's missing direction. You understand what I'm saying, and we see it every day for those of us like that come out of the boxing community, or to those of us that are in the box community. I still dabbling, dibbling, dabbling box community conversations. Right, and then you follow the trends and the common trends of the boxing activity. A bunch of trash content, respectfully, a bunch of trash content. Bro nobody's talking about the sport of boxing anymore. Everybody's talking about gossip. Everybody's talking about a bunch of foolishness, about people's clothes, about people's money about women, about we having a real right now, they're having a real conversation about Clarissa Shields beating up the a, one of the whatterweight champs. Of the world. And this is a real argument, a real conversation that we're having trash conversations in the sport of boxing respectfully have bottomed out, bottomed out conversations within the realm of of of of How can I say cultural development bottomed out? Nobody's talking about anything worth worth anything anymore. We talk about building culture culturally, nobody it's a bunch of bullshit. Saluting my brother a b man in with the supersticker man salute family, thank you, thank you, thank you, thank you. Bron really truly appreciate it. And that's the truth. So we catch these trends and then we ride these trends. Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah yeah yeah. And that's the and that's the that's the that's the the truth. It is easy for us to drift and the result is a life full of activity, but it's mising direction. We busy but not aligned purpose anchors. You you understand what I'm saying. So if you are locked into your purpose right and when you get a notification on social media. You don't have to click on it. You understand what. I'm saying, or for me, if I go somewhere and I might be somewhere having a conversation and the conversation starts to shift in a direction that I'm that's not constructive to raising the social economic status and empowering people, and shit, I'm out of here. I can slide out. It's that simple. And I laugh and play and joke all all man around the board. But man is craziness. It's craziness. So at the end of the day, you get caught into trends, get caught into opinions. You feel me and we follow and jump on opportunities that don't fit us. And purposes will anchor you from all of that and it stops to drift it. So here's a simple question you can start using and asking yourself immediately. Let me give you this news you can use and the question is it's simple, It is simple. Purpose on your forehead, you ask yourself, does this move me closer? That's it? Does this move me closer? If it's a yes, move forward. If it's a no, step away, that's it. You can decline respectfully decline. Yeah. If it's a yes, move forward. If it's a no, step away. And I'm gonna tell you the majority of your distractions are gonna disappear when you start using that question every day, every moment, every moment. Does this move me closer? Yes? Move forward? If you don't move me closer, no step away? Easy work, easy work, Yeah, my sister Andy said, She said, maybe because I'm fifty five. In my age, I've achieved things I wanted most, so I'm gonna get money regardless, and my hobbies make make my life fuller. But my purpose is to live fully. That's a beautiful thing. And when you get to that space, especially if you've contributed, if you've contributed in a way that you were supposed to contribute, Man, it's a beautiful thing to sit back. I can't wait, I had said some years ago when I got to fifty, I was gonna I used to say it on here when I get to when I get to fifty, I'm gonna be chilling. Now I got two years to get there, you feel me, And y'all wonder why I'm hustling. Ha, y'all wonder why I'm getting to it a man, that question does this move me closer? That should be in your vocabulary in every situation. Does this move me closer? Hey man? We're about to go out to eat? Does this move me closer? Hey man? We about to move and group? Hey man, do it move me closer? Before I answer a phone call? Does this move me closer? Y'all? I'm sick with it? Man, I am sick with it, sick with is sick with it? Sick with it? Does this move me closer? Yeah? Yeah, So I'm gonna give you three things like I always do, to think about in this order. First one, what's one decision you've been overthinking? You take that one decision that you've been overthinking, no matter what it is, that one decision that you was overthinking that you've been overthinking, and then you put that you put that purpose question on his ass. You put that that purpose question on his ass. Does it move me closer? And that's it, end of it, end of the story. That's the end of it. Number two, you got an opportunity. Some of y'all got an opportunity. I don't know who, but somebody got an opportunity, and you're unsure about the opportunity, like you are literally unsure about this said opportunity, right, put that question on his ask does it move me closer? Does it move me closer? Does it move me closer? Yeah? Does it move me closer? You put that You put that decision on you. I mean that question on you. Salut to My Brother My Heart Nation in the super Chat Salute Family, he says, when you fifty, I'm pulling up to Ohio to see you. Hey, Bro, you ain't pulling up to you. Ain't pulling up to me Bro in Ohio. Bro, I can't here walking around where I'm from with you. Bro, I got a reputation to our hold. Slut to my Brother My Heart Nation Sports podcast. I'll be here waiting on you. Bro. This is a big one. Kia. Hopefully you'll ask still in here number three, what's one commitment that you still that you have? One of your commitments, one of them that may not align anymore. It may not align anymore. Yeah, yeah, you look at that commitment. Then you ask does this move me closer? And I'm gonna tell you the truth. Man, Everything that you need with regard to clarity and pure simplifying your decisions comes from literally honest reflection. Y'all gotta get honest with yourself, Like you gotta get honest with yourself. You gotta reflect from an honest place. You gotta get honest with yourself. Yeah, now here's the truth. I want you to remember. People with purpose don't avoid decisions. So people who are locked into their purpose, they don't avoid decisions, they just simplify them. Yeah, and once again, purpose acts like a compass. As you've seen, I've been having the compass. I've really been using that compass a lot in all of the images. Yeah, get it out of here, then, kid, get it out of here. Get that mother fuck out of here. It ain't a line. Get it out of here. And I understand that dissertation. That's a big old bitch. Get her out of here. Get her out. It's out of here. Get that mother fuck out of here. Purpose acts like a compass, And if that dissertation is not in agreement with the compass, it's gotta go. And without a compass, man, if you don't have a compass, every rod is gonna look the same, every role gonna look the same. Yeah, but when you have direction, you know exactly where to go. You feel me. You know exactly where to go, and that's what we're here to do. Man. We are here to get them compasses, man, to make sure they ain't work in order so we know exactly where to go. This is the Black Coffee Club live, man, I mean the Black Coffee Club, the most consistent morning circle on the planet. I really truly genuinely appreciate y'all man around here. Man, we don't drift. We're working towards moving with purpose. Man. And that's its salute to the family. Thank y'all so much, Really truly genuinely appreciate y'all. If I had a million tons, I couldn't tell it all, man. Thank you. Shout out to everybody that shared, liked, commented, Salute to everybody that caught the stream live. Shout out to the replay game. Shout out to the podcast family, Salute to you, Thank you all to the super chat superchats. I got some cash apps as well, man, Salute to you all, Cash App family. Hopefully y'all don't feel neglectful, but I don't be trying to say y'all real names, but to salute to you all. Thank you all so much. Man. 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