The Man Who Can't Lead Himself Has Already Lost the Room 20-Minute Show Script

It's It's. SIPs from its six from. Hey hey hey, hey, hey hey hey hey hey hey man, what's up with it? Family? Hey man? Listen? Are we in July with it? Are we in July with it? New who day? Hey man? This episode aims to challenge you to understand that leadership begins with self leadership, but earning influence over others. A man must demonstrate discipline, accountability, consistency, and integrity in his entire life, y'all whole like, let's go. New Day, New Day. It's up new a new day, New Day. It's up new what's up with it? New Day? New Day? Tell him? He tell them their gang can't find it? What's up with you? Broke? New Day, New Day? It's up New Man? That show Feel good Man, New Day, New Day. It's a new man, that show, feel good man? What's up with the family? Man? Shout out to the family man. Let me tell you all I need you, I need you to. I'm going to say I want to. Welcome officially, welcome for the first time to some Welcome back to. Most to the Black Coffee Club hosted by. Yours Truly Junior the Truth Man, the most Intentional Morning Circle on the planet. Man, I really truly genuinely appreciate you all. Man. If I had a million times, I couldn't tell it all man, Salute to you. Thank you, thank you, thank you, thank you, thank you. I'm in DJ host Junior the Truth. You can follow me everywhere via social media. I could be found with the handle Junior the Truth j U N I O R t H E t r U t H and it's over all the social media platforms. Man. But if you're really looking for me, you can come over to. The hub www dot Junior Truth dot com and it's all things Junior the Truth. Man. I'm there. The content is there, my contact information is there, the book, the shop, even the link over to the Simple Truth Network, which is ultimately the end destination. Salute to the family, though, man, really truly genuinely appreciate you all man. Thank you, thank you, thank you, thank you, thank you. Man. We crossed over into July. Man, July twenty twenty six. Shout out to everybody man that you know enjoyed yourselves these weeks this weekend. Salute to everybody that when it caught fireworks. Salute everybody that made fireworks. Salute to everybody to spend time with your family. Barbecue, no matter what it is that you did. Man, Salute, no matter what it is that you did. Salute man. My family and I went to we were in Cleveland and I went for a championship fight. You know what I mean, in the city of Cleveland. Salute to the city of Cleveland. Man, shout out to you all. Thank you so much. Man. It was it was. It was a time was had man, and salute to everybody. Shout out to everybody that pulled up on me this weekend too. Man. Salute to the family. Salute to everybody that you know pulled up on me, hugged my neck, everybody you know that I chopped it up with, you know, everybody that's a part of you know what I mean, the punch Junkie family, the l dB C. Shout out to the mighty l DBC. Salute to you know everybody. Man. You know, it was good to see everybody. You know. A special shout out to to my brother TD Terror Squad, Tommy Man from TV Sports Talk Salute family. Salute to my brother an Ward Willis pulled up on me. Salute to d DP Rock of five one to three, the brother pulled up on me. Man. Salute to land of the two one six Rob Walker, My brother pulled up on me. Salutor Howard Runs Boxing Man, chefs by Uh, preps by Dre my brother. Man. Just shout out to everybody. Man, Shout out to both teams as well. Shout out to the Mason family and shout out to Abdullah, my young champion Abdulah Man and salute to my brother Albert Prince Bell Man. Salute to al Man. Salute to the entire team. Man. Shout out to everybody Man, h Bo Mac Man, Bud Crawford. Man. Just shout out to everybody that I got an opportunity man to cross pass with, chop it up, Sean Porter, Uh, just everybody. Man. Let me stop naming names because it was too many. I even saw Tim Bradley a salue to everybody. You understand what I'm saying, Dirk Gain said, truth off surprise you didn't go live from the fights, bro, Nah Man, I ain't gonna lie to you, Bro. This's that fight. It was a It was a real emotional one for me. So as you can tell, my content was minimal and I really was just chilling. Man. You feel me and I just really wanted to be a fan. I realized when I got there, man, I wasn't really trying to I was there to represent the brand. Of course, that is the Punch Junkie brand, but you know, outside of that, man, I really just wanted to be a fan. Bro. You know what I'm saying. I really just wanted to be a fan. Do a little networking, but more so than anything, just really be there to support because that was colossal for my state. You understand what I'm saying. Uh yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. I was just there, man. I just was there to be a part of something special. There to be a part of something special. But man, let's get to it, man, so we can get through it. Salute to you all. Man, really truly genuinely appreciate you. And that's that's it, man, that's it. The thing that came to me, because this month is July, man, is we're working our way through you know what I mean, our self mastery. You know, a content and blueprint for the show. This month is dedicated to really to leadership, man, because leadership is one of them things we don't necessarily talk the most about, or we don't I don't think we give a leadership enough credence. You feel me, I really truly don't, you know. And that's just what it is. And the whole concept for today once again is you know, or the title is the man who can't lead himself has already lost the room. And you know, I come in, you know what I mean, making a call, and I make calls based on my own you know, experience, or you know what I'm dealing with in life or things that I have done, dealt with, things that I've overcome, or things that I am overcoming, so on and so forth. The first room that you lose, and when I say lose a room meaning nobody's with you. You understand what I'm saying. The first room that you lose is the room inside yourself. The first room that you lose is the room inside yourself. Yeah, top of the day to you, man, Grab your coffee, and let's tell the truth this morning. A lot of men, and I'm gonna pick on my men, folks. A lot of men say that they want to lead. You understand what I'm saying, a lot of men say that they want to lead. We have these all of these these thoughts in these idea is about leadership. You know, the whole alpha male movement. You feel me. People think that they really want to lead. They want to lead a family, they want to lead a business, they want to lead a team, they want to lead a movement, they want to lead their community. But here's the question that nobody's gonna ask. Here's the question nobody's gonna ask. Can you lead yourself? Can you lead yourself? That's the question nobody asks, can you lead your self? Because leadership is not something that people give you. Leadership is something that your life demonstrates. You feel me. And I'm saying true leadership, because people can give you leadership like you get leadership and you get opportunities at leadership. But I'm talking about true, genuine leadership. I have a running joke that I say all the time. You know, you get up and you you move, and you you know, you go to these organizations you feel me or you know, you go to these these you know whatever you know, work or your career or whatever. And you go in there. And a lot of us in these in these areas, we are being led by people who didn't make up their bed today. You feel me, You being led by somebody who didn't make up their bed. You understand you're being led by somebody who didn't wash They didn't even wash their ass good today? Oh man, do you understand what I'm saying? Leadership is something your life demonstrates and the people get the ones that get it get it. You get what I'm saying when I say being lad by somebody. Somebody will come to an organization and begin telling people exactly what they do and how to do it. And they didn't make up their bed today. They haven't checked their boxes, dotted their eyes, crossed their t's. Yeah, and here's my final thought or my verdict on a day's conversation. And you know I always come in and I give you that early. And that is the man who can't lead himself has already lost the room, not because people don't like him, not because he's not talented, but because eventually people recognize the inconsistency. People recognize excuses, people recognize a lack of discipline, They recognize a man who's words in his life don't match. One of the coldest things that you have to or one of the coldest things that I say to people, especially people who are and who have relationship with me is like, look, man, all I need you to do is to be who you tell me you are. That's it. All I need you to do is be who you tell me you are. It's one of the simplest things ever. Is simple, but it's not easy, especially in twenty twenty six. It's simple, but it's not easy. You feel me. All I need you to do as my friend, as my brother, You understand what I'm saying. As a family member, as a community member, as a supporter, as somebody I support, all as a. Colleague, you feel me as a lover. All I need you to do is to be who you tell me you are. That's it. Be who you tell me you are. And eventually, when it comes to leadership, people will recognize when a man's words and his life don't match. And that's where leadership begins to disappear. And leadership, if we're telling the truth, begins to disappear far far far before anybody ever leaves the room. You understand what I'm saying. Leadership begins to disappear long before anyone walks away. Man, let's get it one. So I've hustled harder than the moment I'm a feast on these streets, Gator revolver. I talked for these niggas trying to take me off the block where I pointed up daily sit Bailey's out the bottles smoke. Yes, all right, man, alright, man, alright, man, alright, man, all right, man, all right man, Let's get to it. Man, did y'all hear what I said? Man, When a man's word in his life don't match, don't you start to look at that ship sideways? Is it or is it just me? I could I could really be in this thing all by myself, which is who wouldn't be the first time, wouldn't be the last? You feel me? But when I look at you. Different, man, when your words in your life don't match and it's inconsistent, you feel me. Yeah. Yeah, But here's the reality. A whole lot of people, many people, most people. Yeah, everybody wants influence, right, everybody wants influence. Very few people want self governance, you feel me. Everybody wants influence, Very few people want self government. We want respect without consistency. We want authority without accountability, you feel me. We want people to trust us without giving them a trustworthy example. That's backwards. Leadership is not about telling people what to do. Leadership isn't about telling people what to do. Leadership is about showing people what's possible. Your children are watching, your spouse is watching, your employees are watching, your friends are watching, Your family members, your cousins, Jantie, your kin folk they watching. And it's not about your speeches. It's not your speeches, it's your habits. It's not your intentions, right, it's your standards. Because people don't follow titles, they follow evidence. Does that make sense? I don't even know. If y'all rocking with me the room, then when dead silent, you feel me. Shout out to everybody that's on the live stream man, really truly genuinely appreciate you all. Shout out to the replay Gang Man, replay Gang and don't bang, what's up with your family? Salute to the replay Gang, and shout out to my podcast family hashtag Junior Mafia me live for me lea man, Salute to you all. Man that I'm hopefully y'all are soaking up or at least listening or hear what I'm saying. People don't follow titles, they follow evidence. Yeah, they follow evidence. And here's what happens. When a man stops leading himself, he starts negotiating with his own standards. We're back here again. When you stop leading yourself, you start negotiating with your own standards. And you'll say things, y'all, I'm gonna get up early and you don't. Yeah, man, I'm gonna start eating better and you don't. A man will say, man, I'll start procrastinating and he doesn't. A man will say family comes first, but then the calendar says something different, little by little, little by little, and you're or. A man then teaches himself that his own word doesn't matter. Your own word doesn't matter, and that's dangerous because every broken promise weaken self trust. How do we get back here again? Every excuse lowers your standard, you feel me, Every compromise chips away at your credibility, and eventually the room is already lost, not because people reject you, but because you stop being someone worth following, you feel me. Leadership always leaks from out, from an inside out. Always, so you know, if you look and you come through your life for a real world example, right and think of somebody who you valued them, You looked at them as a leader, and you value their word and you value what they said and how they conducted it and how they carried it, and then the moment you realized that they weren't who they said they were. If you anything like me, your heart was broke. You understand what I'm saying. Your heart was broke. One thing for me is is ah man. Like I have a lot of especially in the professional rent. In my professional life, man, I have a gang of examples of people who you know, say things and say they carry it a certain way, and then you get to see them in action, and when you see them in action, their words aren't congruent with their actions. Yeah, Leadership always leaks from inside out. Always always. I'm trying not to cuss, man, but I really you know, that really makes me want to cuss. Like you, you know, a person say one thing and then they get in front of them people and it's something totally different, or they get around other people and it's something totally different, and you look and you just realize that they are. Full of kaka. Leadership always leaks from inside out. Their words are not congruent with their actions. Yeah. Yeah, So what's the correction? The correction is. It's gonna be bad man, and y'all gonna get mad at me, But it's cool. Stop trying to lead everybody else. Stop trying to lead everybody else. Stop stop trying to lead people, you feel me. Can't you tell, like in your life, can't you tell when leadership is is being forced when somebody's trying to force it? You know, y'all got that. Y'all got them friends like you get that homeboy that always wants to run out and be out in front. He always wants to be the first to walk in the room. He always wants to be the loudest. He's the one that knows something about everything. He has something to say about everything. You feel me. He always has to give his opinion about everything. Solute the phyllis new news. What's up with it? Bro? Like you got those people who always like literally just got to be in the mix on everything, got to be a part of this. Oh I did this, Oh I did that? Or you feel me of I call it the over emphasis of self importance. You always got you got those people, right, And I'm talking about to correct leadership. In order to correct leadership or lack thereof, stop trying to lead everybody else right, and you start with leading yourself. You start with leading yourself right, You lead your attitude. We can really start there because there's so many people I see that get up and try to be leaders and have the absolute worst attitude period, point blank, end of discussion. Like they have the absolute worse attitudes. You feel me. What they say, man, you need to work on your people skills. You feel me, you need to work on your people skills. Nah, lead your attitude, lead your emotions, lead your habits, lead your your schedule, lead your standards. You feel me, lead your excuses, lead your reactions. Because the fact is is, if you can't govern your own life, then why should anyone trust you to influence theirs? I'm telling you, man, these people that are in these leadership positions that we are expected to follow behind their own. Lives are in turmoil. House turmoil, marriage turmoil, shit, romantic life if they're not married, turmoil, pocketbook turmoil, relationship with the children, turnoil. You feel me, total complete turmoil. Yeah, if you can't govern your own life, why should anyone trust you to influence theirs? Self? Leadership though, is not about perfection, you feel me. It is about one hundred percent ownership. It's looking in the mirror and saying I'm responsible. I'm responsible, not they made me, they held me back, they don't support me. They said this, they did that, not that it is I'm responsible. Leadership begins with the moment that blame ends. You feel me as a I keep telling y'all this, and I say this as a as a man that is in his late forties, a forty eight year old man. If I'm talking to anybody over the age of thirty and you start talking to me about something that your parents did, the conversation is over. You feel me. If you talking to me about your current condition and you are talking about something that your parents did. Your auntie m did, your cousin did you feel merr? Your baby daddy did? Man? If you talking to me about anything that anybody did as it relates to your current condition in your life, you've already lost me in a conversation. Ownership says I'm responsible. Third game boss says self accountability facts. It starts with our ownership. Ownership and man, I don't want to lay out on the track there. We'll talk about that more in depth, but I believe in one hundred percent ownership. Ownership is everything. Ownership is everything. Leadership begins with the moment that blame ends. You feel me, And that's why your disciplined maat. Not because discipline impresses people, but because discipline creates integrity, and integrity creates influence. And it all starts internally with yourself. You feel me. It's all internally with yourself, which is where it starts. You gotta do the inside because if you do the inside work, and you're doing the inside work right, then the outside reflects the inside. Yeah, THRK Gang said. Ownership means I own my shit. It's mine. It don't belong to nobody else. It's mine. It's mine. Yeah, it's me. Yeah, this is me. So I'm end this just with one quick question, because's time to slade. We're gonna end with one question. It's not a complicated question, it's an honest one. And the honest question is would you follow you? Would you follow you? If someone lived exactly like you, if they managed money like you do, if they handle pressure like you, if they protected their family like you, they kept their commitments like you, would you tell them keep going? Or would you tell them you need to raise your standard. And that's the mirror, Like, that's the challenge. Because the fact is, man, leadership, it don't begin with something when somebody gives you a microphone you feel me, or a platform, or an office or a team of subordinates. Like, it doesn't begin there. Leadership begins when you become a person who life speaks before he does, you feel me. Leadership begins when you become a person whose life speaks before you do. So today, don't focus and I'm talking about today. Don't focus on leading the room, focus on leading the person in the mirror. Yeah, hey, man, this is the Black Coffee Club. Man. We don't chase influence. We become people worth following. Yeah, salute to you all. Man, Thank y'all so much for taking the time to tune in. Man, really truly genuinely appreciate y'all. This is Junior the Truth signing off. Man, ah Man, my fault this uh. This show has been brought to you by the Black Coffee Club. 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