This Is Why Most People Avoid Discipline | The Black Coffee Club ☕️

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Brother, Check your email brother, Man, a standing ovation for the most intentional morning circle on the planet. Man, I really truly genuinely appreciate you all, and welcome back once again. Man, let's get straight to it today. Most people don't hate discipline, man, they avoid it. Trouble Man Tuesday, and I'm here asking the question Man, you're still running from that discipline. Huh, still running from that discipline. And the topic of the conversation, of course, is why most people avoid discipline. Most people don't hate discipline, though they avoid it, and it's not because they don't want better. So let's be clear about that. It's not because we don't want better. It's because discipline asks something uncomfortable. You feel me as human beings, think about it. Man, We are built for comfort. Like we are built for comfort. Thrive a glow with y'all. She'll tell you we're built for comfort like we are built for comfort. Literally, we are built for comfort. 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Most people don't hate discipline. They avoid it. And it's not because they don't want better, Because people want better, but discipline asks something uncomfortable. Today's conversation why most people avoid discipline? And if discipline is ever felt heavy, or it's ever felt you know, restrictive or like it wasn't you like discipline? It's just ain't me. You feel me? If you ever felt like discipline, just it wasn't you, then hopefully today's conversation is going to help shift how you see it. You understand what I'm saying. So I want you to be honest in the chat. We're about to get to work. I want you to be honest in the chat. What word comes to mind when you hear discipline? What word comes to mind when you hear the word discipline? I'm gonna wait to see if you're listening to the podcast, put it in a comment section. Everybody listening to live in the chat. In the chat, replay game, y'all hit the comments section. When I say the word discipline, what word comes up? What word comes up in your mind? I say discipline, Your mind automatically says, I hear restriction. That's what comes up in my mind. King Vonnie said restriction. Were on the same wave length. I hear restriction. Kid says so to my sister kids, she says structure. Yeah, I hear restriction. King Vonnie hears restriction. Dirk game Boss says responsibility. Tifty two says work uh for our sniper says focus. My sister shag g ready fast, She says order. My brother be about a farm, said, there we go with every everybody coming out the woolworks. My brother be about a farm, say it's consistency. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah yeah. When I say discipline, what word comes to mind? If you haven't put one in dorive and go with y'all, says restriction. I hear that's what I hear. I hear restriction. Discipline is restriction in my mind. Yeah. Some of the other stuff you gonna you might you that might come up. It might be you might hear in your mind. Your mind might say hard, Your mind might say boring. Your mind might say strict, your mind might say painful, you might say necessary. You understand what I'm saying. But when you take an honest account for what your mind says when you hear the word discipline, then you'll begin to start to unlock some things. Man. Yeah, but you you. Every time you hear the word discipline, your mind says something. It says something exactly, it says something. It says something. Every time you hear the word discipline, you hear something. We're gonna talk about. Why, let's get it. So I've hustled harder than the moment. I'm a feast on these streets. Got a revolver. I talk for these niggas trying to take me off the block where I pointed up Daily sip Bailey's out the bottly smoke. Man, Salute to the family, Salute to everybody man taking the time to tune in once again in the live stream. Shout out to everybody catching the replay replay gag and full of fake and salute to everybody that's catching this podcast the podcast for family hashtag Junior Mafia. 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What percentage of people you say avoid discipline in twenty twenty six? What percentage of people avoid discipline in twenty and twenty six? Lai? If you had to put a percentage on it, how many? What would you say? Your percentage would be? Maamn, I'm thinking myself right now. Sorry, she said seventy. I think seventy is a good number. I was thinking, I was thinking seventy. I was really thinking seventy to eighty five percent. I'll probably go higher, maybe split the difference and say eighty. I think about eighty percent of people avoid discipline, like I'm talking about just really truly living just a disciplined life. Yeah, yeah, phelis Na says eighty three point four eight percent. I think Phelix got the number. I think Phelix got the number. Yeah, I think I think eighty three point four to eight percent is the number that's the official number of people that avoid discipline in twenty twenty six, especially as it relates to the culture, because this is a cultural conversation, especially as a respect it relate excuse me, to the culture. So we're gonna officially say eighty three point forty eight percent people avoid discipline. Why so, here's the first truth we gotta face, y'all. Y'all ready, the first twoth that we gotta face is discipline threatens comfort. Discipline threatens our comfort. You understand, our comfort is predictable, our comfort is familiar, our comfort, Your comfort doesn't argue with you. You understand like it's predictable, it's familiar. It doesn't argue with you. Growth, on the other hand, is gonna ask you some questions. Growth is gonna ask you some questions. So some examples is taking your ass to bed instead of scrolling? Why do we keep talking about the same thing some of you are. There's somebody, I guarantee you that's listening to this content, especially in on the as far as the replay game. But there's somebody that's going to be listening to this content and they're gonna get to this point right here, and it's going to be a point at the evening where they should have their ass and be But you're listening to me instead of going to bed. I appreciate you, hick the light button why you're in here, But man, take your ass to bed if this is your bedtime. But go to bed versus scrolling, speaking up versus being quiet, being prepared and preparing versus procrastinating, going to take your ass to train instead of chilling. Yeah, discipline doesn't just attack your comfort, It exposes it. You understand what I'm saying, It exposes it. Attacking and exposing are two different things right, and discipline doesn't just attack your comfort. It exposes your comfort, It exposes it. Most people don't avoid discipline because it's hard. We don't avoid discipline because it's hard. We avoid discipline because it interrupts what feels good right now. We avoid it because it interrupts. Discipline interrupts what feels good right now. I want to feel good right now. When we go back to talking about habits, when we talk about comforts, what are we all talking about. We're talking about what gives us relief, what feels good right now. Discipline interrupts what feels good right now. Old school Winston Lyne in the building, what's up with it? Phillies do that says it's scary. It is scary. It is scary, kid, Alan said, Man, gone, bro, I'm telling you the truth. You know, I ain't laying. Discipline interrupts what feels good right now. Like nah, man, I want that right now, that feels good right now. Discipline is gonna off set and interrupt all that shit. It's gonna interrupt it this mm hm. Discipline is going to directly interrupt what feels good right now. Y'all know I ain't laying yeah, yeah, Now, this is the this is the truth, and you can you can you can type it in the chat if you're feeling if you're feeling real, real foggy, well excuse me, real froggy. But the fact of the matter is is I choose comfort more than I admit. I choose to be comfortable more than I admit. I choose comfort more than I admit. Let me let me lead by example. You understand what I'm saying. Let me let me leave by example, and let me let me type that shit the chat. You feel me, let me because I'm talking to myself. Maybe I came in here in the trouble manchoos that to talk to myself. I might not even be talking to y'all. You feel me, I might not even be talking to y'all. I choose comfort more than I admit. That's on my soul. I choose comfort more than I admit. I'm engineered to choose comfort. I'm in you're near to choose comfort, kid, she said, I thought this fucking fault right now. I choose comfort more than I admit this. This looked good like this, this grind, this hustle me, pushing I gotta keep putting that looks good. But the fact is I choose comfort more than I admit. Like that's if I'm telling the truth and I'm keeping it the being. Yeah, I choose comfort more than more than I meant. Yeah, yeah, I choose comfort more than I admit. Now, this is the deal. That's not being weak. That's human. That's the You're being human when you choose comfort. That's not being weak. That's being human. Think about it. When you're running or you're exercising and you get out of breath, what does your body doody tells you to stop? You feel me when you walking up the stairs with your big ass and you get to the top of the steps and you what is your body do your body tell you? Wait a minute, man, chill out now for a second. Let's catch our breath. You just came up and fly the steps with your big as. Your body is trained for comfort and seeking comfort is not weak. It's human. Dirt Game Boss said, I'm guilty of that shit too, Hey, dirt game boy, I hit them steps. I got steps to my house and don't let don't mess around and let me be in the basement. And then I gotta come out the basement and go all the way up to the top floor. Oh my, oh my god. I get to the top step like, man, wait a motherfucking minute, wait a minute, because I gotta get some I got an extracise. I gotta train, man, I gotta get some mouths in or something. Why am I. Feeling light headed walking up the tail to the top of the steps with my big gas? Yeah, a kid with your big gas. Hey man, with your big gas. Hey man, Man, Nah, hey man, say man, I'm trying to man, I'm just trying to talk to the people. Hey, I got an old country ass. Whopoper for saying with your big gass. My aunt. I had an aunt. They used to crack on me and ship and you know they that's my family. My family cracked jokes like we bussed. So I had an aunt used to crack on me and ship bus on me. And it was a uh man, it was something that came on man. And she started dancing. My ants started dancing and wiggling and ship and I said, I said, dance with your big gas to my aunt and man, I got a boy. I got an old country ass with my daddy. Who my ass? I told my aunt dance with your big ass. Be an old. Country and I said it loud though, in front of all my cousins. I said, dance with your big ass. I got an old country ass whooping for that. But I always had with your big gass in my vocabulary. Kill. I told my Auntie, I said dance with your big ass. Because I had to be about six. I had to be about six, told my auntie, dance with your big gas. Dance with your big gass. Mm hmm. Yea, I ain't wired too tight, but yeah, you go to you go up to them steps, Joe, get to the top of them steps. Joe. You know, Joe you are you're a fitness fanatic. You know you remember when big Joe used to climb up the top of them steps with her big ass. Day Get to the top of them steps. Boy, that shit be treacherous, motherfucker, be light headed seeing stars. But man, I gotta sit down for a minute. Man, just wait, just wait, wait a second. You ain't gotta keep moving. Wait a second, and then don't mess around and be don't mess around and be uh with a group of people like we'll be going to games and ball games and shit fights I'll be in fights and I be walking with a group of people and we get to the top of the steps, and I gotta keep pushing like I always get myself out of front because I'm trying to prove that I that I'm alright with my big gass. Then I get to my seat. Man, to be on the brink of a cardiac, you feel me? Nah, Man, your body is conditioned for you to be comfortable. You ain't. Your body ain't gonna let you go too far without be Your body is trying to do whatever it takes for you to get back to some comfort. Period. That does not make you weak. That makes you a human being. Period. You're human. You're not a machine. You're human. Yeah, yeah, yeah, Hey when old school wins Alice said, screw them downstairs, off to some uncle near's. But who you do telling? Who you telling? I don't be trying. I don't got nothing to prove no more. Man, I'm man, man, please, bro, I'm not finla what fuckers that? Man? We're gonna take the steps, man, the elevator. Now, Man, we on the we on the eighth floor. What you're talking about, I'm not taking those stairs to the eighth floor. Man, the hell with what you talking about? Bro? You crazy nigga? That ship everything. I got this on the eighth floor, Gonna stay there until this elevator start working again. It's oh it man, we're gonna just take the steps. Mm hm no we not, no, we not. When I stay at hotels, I choose the top floor to so I can so I can avoid the steps with my big ass. Your body is engineered for you to choose comfort. Discipline interrupts that. Discipline interrupts what feels good right now. Now you do whatever it is that you that you need to deal with however you need to, because I'm because I'm talking you. I could be talking about, uh, you taking the stairs at the game. I could be talking about the comfort foods you eat. I could be talking about your bedside man it yeah, yeah, I could You might be Yeah, you might be. I'm trying to use the appropriate language because I don't want to go too far. But you might be doing something. You might be doing the wang dang doodle with somebody right now, just out of comfort because it feels good right now, when you really should be disciplined, because yeah, you probably you're probably shooting your aim a little bit too low, you feel me. So you're choosing comfort right now, doing the wang dang doodle with somebody that you probably shouldn't be talking to. Discipline causes you to, you feel me. Discipline causes you to interrupt what feels good right now. Yeah, I know, Junior, No, one ain't supposed to be dealing with her, bro, but she got that juice box, you feel me. I get it. Women, Hey, Julian, I know I ain't supposed to be dealing with him, but boy, that boy scratched his itch. He been scratching his itch for a little while. That's cool. Discipline is gonna offset that. Discipline is gonna expose that. Discipline is gonna interrupt what feels good right now, and that's why we avoid it. I really can stop right now, just gone with the rest of my day. But y'all hear y'all have took the time to click the link, and y'all that came on in here, y'all have already smashed the light button. A lot of people ran out, you know what I mean. A lot of y'all stayed. They didn't like that, they didn't like that sterious conversation with their big ass. You feel me, But you still here, so we'll keep talking. We'll keep talking. We gotta talk about emotions, because emotions. This is where discipline really gets avoided. When you start talking about emotions. Emotions make you cry some time, all right, all right, all right, looking at us. When we talk about emotions, because emotions, this is really where the discipline gets avoided. Most decisions aren't logical. Their emotions. Their emotions, and they're emotional. Most of the decisions you make in your life, they're not really logical, Especially twenty twenty six. Everything's really emotional. Everything's emotionally driven. Uh huh. See what I'm saying. See what I'm saying. The kids said, No, I'm gone to keep letting him practicing practice wrestling moves on me. I'm gonna keep letting him practice wrestling moves on me. I hate it here, like I really, I really truly, I really truly hated here, man, Like, Like, how am I supposed to proceed with the show? I ordered the conversation. The kid comes in here, and I just say, girl, you gotta stop letting them climb up and down on you. Discipline is gonna interrupt that. And she said, nah, fuck discipline. I'm I'm i'm a I'm a I'm a guy all headed on to keep letting him practice wrestling moves on? Well, I'm supposed to How we How are we supposed to move forward? Hit the light button? Dirt game? Told you I hit the light bubbon? Please hit the light button. How we supposed to move forward from that? Dirt game? How were we supposed to move forward from that? Bro? Let's get back talking about emotions, because this is where discipline gets avoided. The Most decisions aren't logical, they're emotional, right, So if you get tired and all of your emotions that are linked to you being tired, then you're gonna skip the plan, you feel me. If you're gonna be stressed, then you're gonna you're gonna seek relief from your stress. If you get bored, then you're gonna have emotions tied to being bored, and you're gonna doom scroll. If you're gonna be frustrated by something, you're gonna have all those emotions that are tied to being frustrated, and then you're gonna quit early. You feel me, You're gonna quit. Most decisions aren't logical, they're emotional. Yeah, yeah, when emotions lead, right, When emotions are When emotions are in the lead, discipline gets voted right off the island. Don't let that go over your head. When our emotions are leading, when emotions lead, when emotions are in control, discipline gets voted right off the island. Yeah, because discipline requires you to act despite how you feel. You feel me, discipline is gonna require you to act despite how you feel. Discipline, I don't really care about your feelings. It's gonna require you to act regardless of how you feel. And that doesn't necessarily mean ignoring your emotions. You don't ignore your emotions, but you also you don't let your emotions drive. Like, your emotions are not on the ones and tools, so you don't have to ignore them. But you don't let them shits drive either. Yeah, you don't let them drive. So let's work again for a second. Think about the last time you avoided discipline. Think about the last time you conscientiously avoided discipline. In your mind, you made a conscientious decision that I was gonna get I'm gonna avoid this discipline like you're gonna you're avoiding discipline, right, Think about that what emotion was present? What emotion was present? I'm gonna telling myself. For me, I have a four to thirty AM rise time. That's my goal to be up at four point thirty. Avoided that shit today, avoided it today at four thirty am. Wake up. That snooze button. They're gonna hit that snooze button. Get on back to sleep, Get on back to sleep. I was feeling tired at the time. That was what I was feeling. I was feeling tired, and I was an in my feeling tired. I was just feeling really foggy and scattered. So on back to sleep. That was emotionally how I was feeling. Think about the last time you avoided discipline, what emotion was present. I don't need you to share, but I need you to have that in your mind when you avoided discipline, maybe you avoided you were supposed to go train, and you avoided that discipline of taking yourself to go train. Regardless, what'd you feel? Yeah, yeah, be about a farms. Be about a farm, said Cuba. Showed discipline when he asked Cbe to let him out the car, then showed his emotions once he got back to Neia Long's house swinging at the air and crying that's the fact. Your these's facts. Man. I was just about to say this is that's crazy, kid, I think you're really supposed to be here, because I was just about to say overwhelmed. I was just about to say overwhelmed, So tired was the one I used earlier. I was about to say overwhelmed, discouraged, and annoy are common feelings and emotions that are present when you avoid discipline. Overwhelmed is actually number two. That's crazy, But kid said I avoid discipline when I'm overwhelmed. I guess that's how I know we we be in the vein, like we really truly be in the pocket. Tired, overwhelmed, discouraged to know it, Yeah, you avoid discipline. Now this is the truth. The emotion is not wrong, So don't look at emotions like your emotions are wrong. The emotions are not wrong. So the emotion, that emotion that you feel is not wrong. But that emotion is not meant to decide you feel me. The emotion doesn't get to make the decision. Emotions are information, but they're not instruction. And the problem. One of the huge problems in twenty twenty six and beyond, and in this age period, is that people allow their emotions to be instructions instead of information. Emotions are information not instruction. That's a bar. I'm gonna come back to that. Matter of fact. That's a bar. We gotta I gotta do something with that. Today. I think I'm gonna make another We're gonna, we're gonna, we're gonna lay out on the track on that one. Let me hold on, I'm coming back in here. I need to highlight that statement, you feel me. I need to highlight that statement. Emotions are information not instructions. Yeah, yeah, yeah, I'm literally trying to. Yeah. Derkase said, I'm shaking a movie this morning. Just took the escalator over the stairs. Bro. It took the escalator over the stairs. We said, escalator up the hell of the ladder. Nah, that's all the steps. See, this is a glorified ladder. Man. We're taking escalators. Now. Here's where I want to flip the whole conversation, because I gotta flip it. We gotta flip it before I get out of here. We gotta flip it. We gotta flip it. Discipline is not punishing it. Discipline is not punishment. It's not punishment. What if I told you, discipline is self respect? What if I told you discipline is self respect. When you keep promises to yourself, you build trust with yourself. You understand what I'm saying, and when you don't, you quietly erode it. When you keep promises to yourself, you build trust with yourself. What promises have you been keeping to yourself? What promises have you been keeping? When you keep promises to yourself, you build trust with yourself, and when you don't, you quietly erode it. You quiet lyad a rod trust with yourself when you don't, when you break promises, When you make a promise with you, you make a covenant with yourself, and you break it, you quietly rode to trust with yourself. Think about that discipline is really truly self respect? Players Bible? What's up with you? Harmy? I said you? Discipline is self respect. You enter into a covenant with yourself. It's not punishment. And when you keep promises to yourself, you build trust with yourself. So an example is imagine showing up and going somewhere and being being where you said you was gonna be when nobody's watching, you feel me? Like, I see people all the time go to the gym and you know they video record themselves in the gym, and you know they that's cool. But what about when ain't nobody watching? You feel me? What about why ain't nobody watching? You see people sitting down taking pictures and videos with books and them reading a book and so on, that's cool. What are you doing when nobody's watching? What are you doing when nobody's watching? Yeah? Or what about honoring your boundaries when you have a specific boundary set Like for me, I have a specific boundary set around you know, myself, around my life, you feel me, around my mind, around my family. Well, big you saying problems with my wife, don't discuss them. I have real strong boundaries around my family. And when I keep those boundaries, nah, Like. Nah, I'm I'm I'm cool. When you honor your boundaries, yeah, that you build some You build some some some trust in yourself. And when you. Don't, when we when you don't, you're gonna rode that trust with yourself. What about when you do something you said you was gonna do. I know it sounds crazy, bro like, it sound crazy, but we're talking about the real life we talking about twenty twenty six and and and motherfuckers will tell you they're gonna do something in a minute and do the exact opposite. You feel me. They will tell you one thing but then do something totally different comfortably. I've never seen people so comfortable with not keeping their word. I've never seen that before. Like I've never seen this space in the world where people are so comfortable breaking the oath. I've never seen that before. Like i have never seen people so comfortable breaking their word. I've never seen people so comfortable being dishonorable, like I've never seen that before. Man, we're in a weird place. Keivonnie said, I crashed out over my outcomes. I don't negotiate with terrorists. Be about alforance is he said. We bene all told ourselves. I'm on some bullshit right now after not doing what we told ourselves we were supposed to do. And that's how you know, Like, if you've ever had that conversation with yourself, then you're a real one. But look at it, bro I'm telling you, the majority of people don't have that conversations with themselves. It would be it would be beautiful if people did be about a forum. People don't have conversation that conversations with themselves. People do not tell themselves I'm on some bullshit right now. I'm telling you. They don't, Bro, They don't. They don't. They do not say I'm on some bullshit right now after not doing what they told themselves they were supposed they were, what they were supposed to do. They don't do that. Bro. You know what people do. People say I didn't do X, Y and Z because of and then they blame somebody else. That's what happens in twenty twenty six. People will not do the shit that they supposed to do, and then they will reach back in their head in the archives and blame their mama, their grandmama, blame their daddy. You feel looked up and papa was gone, and they blame their fathers or the absence of a parent, or the third grade teacher like they blame somebody else for their lack of an outcome. That's what happens, and for real, with most people with that what was it eighty three point four to eight percent, that's what they do. People do not tell themselves almost a bullshit right now after not doing what they say they were supposed to do. People are comfortable comfortable being in their skin after not being who they said that they were gonna be, after not doing what they said they were gonna do. Period, people make excuses for themselves. Tivy two said, Yeah, people excuse themselves for not doing the shit that they said they was gonna do, and they don't come back and offer any correction or any atonement. Nah, it's crazy. That's where we at. Yeah, but. Imagine people who actually do what they say they gonna do. But it's like this, every time you make a disciplined choice, like every disciplined choice, every disciplined choice. You say, y'all take myself seriously, y'all take myself seriously. I take myself seriously. I know for me, I've I've set boundaries around the content that I that I consume, right, and I've said and it's it's it's like I love everybody like I love I don't love everybody, but I mess with a lot of people and like, like even with listening to boxing content, Like even I'm listening and I might be listening to some of the brothers shout out to the LDBC, and I might be listening to the brother's talk. And if I'm listening to a brother and they get off and they start talking about some bullshit, Bro, I have boundaries around what I'm gonna sit there and listen to, and I respectfully, after I've hit the like button, I will close out the content for today. I'm done listening to that motherfucker for today. Easy. Salute to tay Tate Brown. What's up with you? Love? Easy? The same thing with all of these other different pockets of content, and then people with some people's content that I've listened to that I like, and now I look at them different. You understand what I'm saying. I look at them different like. I used to listen to I used to listen to a fifty one to fifty show with Corey Hoko. I used to listen to him. You know a lot, this whole Anton Daniel situation with them, Bro, I. Can't listen to that shit. Bro, I'm not on that, bro, Like, I can't listen to that. I can't. That's some sucker shit to me, all of it. I never really consume much of Anton Daniel's content, but after all of this fiasco, I wouldn't if I did, like, I'm not anything that is not constructive. I have no, I don't have I don't have much patience for it. Now, that doesn't mean I won't get on here and joke and laugh and play and so on and so forth, you know from time to time. But conversations that are not constructive, we're not building something, We're not mastering ourselves. Now I'm cool. I'm cool because I really truly believe in the responsibility for what I consume. You understand trash in, trash out, garbage in, garbage out, bullshit in, bullshit out. But anyway, I take myself that seriously. That's discipline, Like I take myself seriously. That's what discipline says. Discipline is how I respect myself. Discipline is how I respect myself. Yeah yeah, type that in the chat man, if you if you, if that resonates with you, I'm gonna start with myself. Discipline is how I respect myself. I say it all the time, Like people like Bro, you can't bring no bullshit with me to me because I respect myself too much. You can't talk to me with no he said, she said, conversation. Because I respect myself too much. You can't justify some whole shit when you're talking to me. Because I respect myself too much. You can't bring that around me like that. There's no space for that around me. Yeah, because I respect myself too much. Discipline isn't about being strict kids, says she ain't watched television in over twenty years. Discipline isn't about being strict. It's about being aligned. It's about being aligned. Discipline is how I respect myself. Discipline is how I respect How about how I respect myself. Discipline is how I respect myself. Growing with Soul says, Discipline is how I respect myself. That's powerful. Discipline is how I respect myself. Bro. And I ain't gonna go all off on tangent, but like for. Me, like I'm sick with it, like I'm I am, I'm not a rap too tight, right, And so there's like things that like it's just certain people that shouldn't be talking to me. You feel me like if you got messiness on your lips, you got like messiness, you got a messy conversation on your lips. Certain people shouldn't be talking to me. There's certain information, there's certain shit that just shouldn't be in my presence. You understand what I'm saying. Now you can't talk to me respectfully. Discipline is how I respect myself. A motherfucker that don't take care of his kids like bro, when you see do you realize every time you see me, I'm with my kids like I'm with my kids. I want my children like I'm with my I'm with my son, with my daughter, like you see me with my kids, I'm with one of my babies. You feel me. I'm with my babies for the better part. How old is my bad? My oldest baby twenty three years old, so for the latter, for the better part of the last twenty three years of my life. Every time you see me, I'm with my children. Dirt Game Boss said, that's another T shirt I got you. We're gonna make it happen. Discipline is how I respect myself. I need to let me, let me, let me, let me, let me highlight that because Dirk Gang said, that's a T shirt. We're gonna put that on a T shirt. It's coming. It'll it's oh, I didn't mean to do that. It'll drop. It's gonna drop this week. I'll get it done this week. We put it on a sweatshirt. This sweatshirt weather. Discipline, it's how I respect myself, right, so so peek this. Imagine the motherfucker coming around me that don't take care of their kids. Proah, respect myself too much to be around somebody that don't take care of their children. Are you crazy? Proa respect? I respect this shit. I respect like don't. You're talking about one Daddy of the Year ten times in a row. What they give you? You feel me? I wish I would, I wish I would. Discipline is about it's not about being strict, it's about being aligned, and it's just some shit that ain't got no business. Being around me. Man, I gotta get out of here, y'all to make me get a long winded, I gotta get out of here. Discipline is how I respect myself. Like I ain't. I can't come off of that yet. Discipline is how I respect myself. How do you respect yourself? You respect yourself with discipline. You don't respect yourself with just doing whatever. Think about that, and we grew up in that in that era of it's whatever that was that in fact that came directly from us in the nineties, That is whatever it's whatever, y'ah. I'm about that mess. I'm about it. It's whatever with me. But you don't respect yourself. If it's whatever with you, it ain't whatever with me. Anything. Don't go with me, no excuse me. Discipline is how I respect myself. Nah. Discipline is how I respect myself. It ain't whatever. It ain't whatever with me. You can't just bring me any old conversation. You can't just get on my line and just talk to me about whatever. You can't just come in my space and present yourself in any fashion. You understand what I'm saying. You can't just be around me, bro like with whatever. Discipline is how I respect myself. My decision is discipline. The way I carry myself is disciplined, right, wrong and indifferent. Nah yeah yeah yeah yeah. Players bos said what they give you a life time supply babysitting clientele. You feel me, nah, man, Discipline it's how I respect myself. Damn. Discipline is how I respect myself. I don't even want to let that go for real, Like I don't even want to move a conversation forward. Discipline is how I respect myself. Take they said, even when your kids get old older you never stop being a parent. You're always a parent, always and for the better part of twenty three years. Every time you see me out with my kids, So what what business I got like? You can't be around like you know what you mean you don't take care of your kids? To you mean you ain't around your babies? Huh nah. Thark Ay said, this gotta be a two part series. Discipline is how I respect myself. We'll we'll just creative. We'll just create a stand alone video on that. Discipline is how I respect myself. It's not about being strict. It's about being the line I say, I'm trying to be this person and I say I'm trying to I say, I have this purpose on my life and I'm trying to move a purpose right, And in order for me to move towards my purpose, there has to be things set, has to be standards. Discipline, it's how I respect myself. One last thing before we go. Discipline is avoided less when awareness is high. You know, we gotta go back. You know this is with regard to the self. Master with blueprint we're entering into this discipline this month is about discipline, right, The discipline, the choice last month was intentional awareness. So of course, when when. Your awareness is high, then you're less likely to avoid discipline. Discipline and is avoided less when awareness is high. So when you know your triggers, when you know your patterns, when you know your emotional cycles, discipline stops feeling random, right, and you can be more intentional awareness just awareness. The state of literally being aware removes the mystery. Awareness removes the mystery, and discipline handles the execution. Discipline is how you handle the execution. My brother Soul says, as a man who was healing from a mother to son trauma, I could never respect nor be in the presence of a man or woman who doesn't. Take care of his babies period period. Dergay Bos said, he said, truth, this is a This is a box set material for free discipline. He said, for free discipline, the loan needs this own serious system numbers so high and being undisciplined. Man, it's a cold game, bro, but nobody's nobody's dic Think about. It, bro. You can, you can listen, you can. All you gotta do is listen to like y'all, y'all, y'all, listen to content all day long, like y'all listen to we consume content. In YouTube. Like when you listen to YouTube videos, right, all you gotta do is listen to people talk, and you listen to people talk, and you can listen to the words that comes out of that will come out of a person's mouth, and that will tell you. If they are disciplined or not. That will tell you how much discipline there is. You listen to the commentary, listen to the subject matter, listen to to to just the conversation that's being had, and that will tell you the level of a discipline that a person will have, and you take and do what you will with that. Well, let me get out of here, man, family, I'm gonna leave you with this, leave you with this. You don't avoid discipline because you're lazy. You don't avoid discipline because you're lazy. You don't you avoid discipline because comfort feels safe. You avoid discipline because your emotions feel urgent. We avoid discipline because self respect. It takes courage, Like it really truly takes courage, because the fact of the matter is we don't want to be the people that our loved ones look at it and they say, who the fuck he think he is, and that's the truth. You don't want to be. It doesn't feel good to be that person that your loved ones, that your friends, your family members, your homeboys, your home girls, your colleagues. We don't want to be the people that they look at and they say, who the fuck does he think he is? I'm just telling you the truth. I can't. I can only speak for the things I've been through. You understand what I'm saying. I'm not telling you some shit outn't heard. I'm not telling you some shit out in red. It is extremely difficult to be the person that they say, who the fuck did he think he is? I tell you the story out of time about being in meetings at work and being over over my schedule, being overrun with meetings, and if a meeting was scheduled for an hour, at the end of that hour, I'm out. Understand what I'm saying, I'm out. There's no way I'm gonna sit here and be in a meeting past an hour. I respect myself too much. You understand what I'm saying. I'm disciplined with my time. Discipline is how I respect myself. If I go into a meeting and there's no agenda. I'm out. This is just about to be a freak for all conversation. I'm out. Discipline is how I respect myself. And at the end of the day, we avoid discipline because respecting your self. Discipline is connected directly to self respect. Right make that parallel. Discipline is connected directly to self respect. Discipline is how I respect myself. To respect yourself in two, especially in twenty twenty six, to respect yourself takes courage. Nobody wants to be the outlier. Be about aformceys. Don't be afraid to be the outlier. Nobody wants to be the outlier. That's the truth. Discipline is uncomfortable. Who do you think you are respecting yourself? Who do you think you are? Building something different? Who do you think you Who do you think you are respecting your time? Who do you think you are? You ain't coming over here getting drunk and high with us no more. Hence I said no more. You can grow out of that shit. You can change who do you think you are? What you mean? You should see people's faces when they try to especially people that you know that I've been around my loved ones and they try to pass. Me to weed. Who do you think? Who you think you are? What you mean you're don't smoke? Everybody eat here high? I don't even smoke. I don't even smoke. Yeah, you know how many you know how many events? I don't get invited to anymore because I don't get drunken, high and stupid. Nah. They So the answer to that is, man, we ain't inviting wa ain't inviting caw you know how he is? Way ain't feeling. We all gonna get together, everybody gonna be over here. We're gonna be doing what we're gonna do. But we ain't inviting that mother, Look at there, Who do he think he is? Nobody wants to be that person? Kid said, I love it, Kid, I love it. I love it in real life. I love being our learn I love it. Don't bring me no bullshit. Nah, don't bring your ass over here talking crazy to me, because you're gonna get something crazy back. I love it now. Don't bring no foolishness around here to me. Don't bring no DS conversation to me. But we avoid discipline because we don't want to be that person like that takes courage. So discipline ain't about force. It's not about force. Discipline is not about force. I say, I did all this talking just to tell you that discipline is about you choosing yourself. You choose yourself. Discipline is how I respect myself. Discipline is about you choosing yourself. Again and again and again and again and again. Man, this is the Black Coffee Club live. Man. We don't shame growth. We don't shame growth. We understand it. We don't shame growth. Man, We understand it. And once we understand it, we commit to the shit. 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