Your Future Is Being Chosen Every Day (And You Don’t Even Notice) | The Black Coffee Club

Cuz man, Like, it's cuz, what's up with it? Family? Like, I don't know what in the world is going on over here. Man, Salute to you all. Thank you all so much man taking the time and tune in. Really truly genuinely appreciate you. You have absolutely no idea, man, nothing whatsoever. I don't know what's I have, like, absolutely no idea what's going on? But salute to you all, really truly genuinely appreciate you all. Man. My whole system is just everything just I'm I'm about to tell a lie. So before I tell this lie, Whan'm gonna get you out a lie. First, I couldn't get my cameras to work, and then now all of a sudden, just the whole system, mikes, everything wasn't working. But the truth is, I'm trying to set up my multi camera camera angle. So I've been in here like nerd now over trying to figure out how to set this camera angle out, and I lost track of the time. That's the truth. That's the truth. I was trying to overhear, playing with these two cameras, trying to figure this out, and I just can't get the shit figured out. You feel me like I can. I am not able to get it figured out at this point in time right now. And then I looked up and I said, shit, I was supposed to start the show. I'm supposed to start this conversation twenty minutes ago. So my bad, my bad, you know what I mean. So I'm here, salute to you all, Thank you all so much for taking the time to tune in, and really truly genuinely appreciate it, and welcome back to the Black Coffee Club, brought to you by the Black Gentleman Grooming Company and hosted by yours truly, Junior the Truth, really truly genuinely appreciate you all. Man. If I had a million tongues, I couldn't tell it all. Thank you, yeah, thank you, thank you, thank you. Now that I'm officially frustrated by the fact that I cannot or I have not been able to not being able to get the multi camera angle to work, I'm here, salute to you all, man, and I'm late, so we gotta be fast like flash. Because I gotta dash. Yeah yeah, So what's up with y'all? Man? It's a trouble man Tuesday shout out to the most consistent morning circle on the planet. That would be you, that would be you, that would be you. Thank you. I really truly genuinely appreciate you all. Man. I am in DJA host Junior the Truth. You can follow me everywhere via social media. I can be found with the handle Junior the Truth. It's jay U n I O R t H g E t r U t h and it's over all the social media platforms, man, each and everyone. If I had a million tongues, though, man, I couldn't tell it all. And that's just the truth. Man, and I am ridiculous, lead humble, and I really truly genuinely appreciate y'all. King Varney eighty six. First the chat, what's up with your homie? Salute to you brother, the Dirk came boss in the building? What's up with it bots? Salute to your family. Really truly genuinely appreciated hit that like, wasn't sharing sub man in that order, Salute to the don'm be kame underscore in the building. Man, what's up with your family? I really truly genuinely appreciate it. And he doubles right back with the u US six Sports and Entertainment Hub Salute to my usual suspects. Family. What's going on with it? Seven O Folk Joe, what's up with your homie? Salute to you man? Yes, tifty two is in the building. What's up with you? Love? One, Salute to you tifty two? LOOKI at Allen is in a building? What's up with you? Love? Salute to your kid? The homie four our snipers in the build? What's up with you? Homie? Salute to you? Yeah, Hey, hey, hey, hey. Kevin Dumbar the scholar is in the building. What's up with you, homie? My brother Boxing and Barbecue is in the building. What's going on with it? Hey? Boxing and Barbecue? Man? Should I come back and talk boxing? Man? I've been it's been real peaceful. Man, it's been real peaceful. Not really talking though. Boxing, Man. I just been kind of behind the scenes, man, man in my business, writing articles, cooling you feel me, managing, managing what I managed, doing what it is what I do. It's been real peaceful. But I kind of feel like I need to come back. Man. Should I bro Shade girl? Tell me Shaye girl? Should I come back and talk a little boxing? I don't know? Boxing and Barbecue said absolutely not. You feel me? Absolute fuckolutely not no new day, new day. Yeah, man, it's so peaceful. It's sudden new, he said, absolutely nah. Salute to my little sister shake graighty fab. What's up with shade? New day? Yeah, it's sudden new. I'm gonna leave that up there. Boxing and Barbecue said absolutely nah. Man, Hey, corner Girl said, Shane Girl said not really, we cool man, it's sudden new yeah, man, it's a new day, new day, new day. Hey, seven o'folk jokes seven old Folk Joe said, boxing, please, man, come back and talk boxing at least over on the Punch Junkie on the Punch Junkie YouTube channel. Man, talk a little boxing, man, we missed the truth on boxing? Man. I'm man, that's that's rough. Man. I might be able to get y'all one of those a week man. Maybe maybe I might be able to get y'all one of those a week man. Really, all opinion is you feel me this week? The only reason I really want to come back is so I can poop poo on Ryan Garcia. Like that's really the only reason I want to poo pull on Ryan Garcia. Man, and and and and that's it. You know what I mean and give y'all my controversial takes on all things that are going on. Because my controversial takets ain't the same, you feel me, My texts ain't the same. But but outside of that, man, I don't know, I'm cool man, But I will say, for the sake of the Black Coffee Club, a man, anybody drinking coffee? Like, that's what I want to know, Like, anybody drinking coffee? And if so, what are you drinking? You feel me? What are you having today? Today? I have a I have a what is this? I have a This is a medium. This is a medium. I don't even know what canon is. It's just a medium blend and it's half and half. So I just got I just got call with a little bit of I have oat milk half and half. I think I got oat milk or arm in half and a half. And honey, that's all I got, you know what I mean? Corner girl said, yeah, once a week, that's cool. AB said, he on that water. He gone off that water water. What's up with you, bro? He said, he gone off that water water. Yeah good. Don't be drinking dark roast with half and half here, That's what she said. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah yeah. Boxing the Barbecue said, when some real shit happened, maybe maybe, but for the most part, no, I understand why black left shit. Corny you feel me. It's out of there man. Side of there, Man, it's out of there. Bro side of there. Salute the old school instantly in the building. What's up with it? Lakiah Allen said, I got a protein shake with peanut butter and bananas. Protein shake, peanut butter and banana. You understand what I'm try about. She trying to shes trying to you know, that's that's the drink sisters, protein shape sisters be working out. They be trying to thicken up. She trying thicking up. Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah yeah yeah. Corner Girl said, I'm going to this place called Seven Brew and getting a cinnamon roll hot latte. So let me ask you this. Let me ask you this my my, my, not carme machiata. I can't remember what your drink was. Was it a was it a was it a pey so frozen? I can't remember what you got. When we was in Georgia, we got a seven Brew company over here in my area, man, and it was like eleven o'clock at night the other night, and and the line was wrapped around the door, and I mean the line was wrapped around outside. And I'm afraid, you feel me, I'm afraid to drink it. It's seven brew good. And that's the little thing. It's like the little stand with the highway joint around it. Actually, the first time I actually saw one, now that I think about, the corner girl was and I was in Madison. I was in Madison, Alabama the first time I actually saw one because they got one over there by my by my people house. Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah yeah yeah. So I but I never got them or did I get it. I might have got it once. Maybe I was in a coffee gym. You said they have good coffee. I don't know, though, Man, I beat that that that that late night with that that I think that I think they got cocaine in it. Mm hmm, yeah that that that It was late at night, man, some main right, I feel them getting telled by the same sucker headlight. Like I was like, man, I don't know about going to drink that shit. It's lined up around the corner. No, I'm cool, king Vonnie said, I'm eating uh, blueberries, blackberries and strawberries and grapes. That's his cereal. He got that fruit cereal jumping seven O folks, Joe said, straight black black coffee, no sugar, no crane. You understand what I'm saying. Black coffee, no sugar, no cream. You see me? So, I don't know, man, I'm a i'm A, i'm a I'MA. I'm gonna take that. I'm gonna take that seven Brew Company to the to the ancestors. I'm gonna pray on it. I'm gonna pray on it. Let me ask you something uncomfortable this morning? Y'all ready to get uncomfortable? You know yesterday? Or do I gotta chill? Because you know yesterday a lot of y'all y'all was hitting me up. We did a lot of work yesterday, man on ourselves. I did a lot of work on me, you know what I mean? And or do I gotta chill today? You feel me? Do y'all need me to chill? Do y'all need me to go easy? But I'm gonna ask you something uncomfortable. Anyway, if your life five years from now right looks exactly like it does today, who chose that you feel me? Who chose that? Kid said, I feel so much better today? I feel so much better today to kid for real, I feel good out over like Stephanie Mills from five years five years down the road. If your life in five years looks like it does today, who chose that? You feel me like? Like? Was it was it the economy that did Donald Trump choose? It was the economy? Was it the Democrats? You feel me? Was it the was it your job? Was it your upbringing? What was it? Or was it your daily decisions? So your life five years from now, why does it look the way that it looks? Was it your daily decisions? You feel me. Type daily in the chat, let's get it going early if you want to be honest. If we're gonna be honest, it's more it's trouble manchoosday. You already know how we coming, because here's the truth. Your future is not created by big moments. It's chosen in the small ones. And most of us don't even notice that we're choosing. Most of us don't even notice that we're choosing. Not the big grand stand moments. You feel me, it's not the big grand stamp moments. It's the small ones. You feel me. We hear about it all the time. We hear people hit the lottery and then five years later they right back where they were. You understand what I'm saying. Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah yeah yeah. So five years from now, if your life looks the same way it does today, I need you to understand that you made a conscientious decision and you chose that, and it ain't nobody it ain't on nobody else but you, because your future is not creating in big moments. It's chosen in the small ones. Let's get it one so. I'm hustled harder than the moment. I'm a feast on these streets. Got a revolver I took for these niggas trying to take me off the block ware. Our points up daily, Bailey's out the bottles. Yes, indeed, one more time for the most intentional, boring circle on the planet. Man, I love y'all, and a shit you can do about it. I'm gonna talk about something. Let me, let me, let me put this. Let me roll this up in your in your Put practice in your pipe so you can smoke it. Put this in your pipe and you can smoke it. Let's talk about something most people never practice. You ready, and it might be a concept you never even heard of. You understand what I'm saying. Some people might have done it and do it but never heard it. Termed this way. Salute to my sister, Thrive and glow with Joe. What's up with you, Joe? The thing that most people never practice is future self thinking? Future self thinking. You understand what I'm saying. Most of us think from our present emotions. We think from our present circumstances. How often do we engage in future self thinking? How often do you allow yourself to think from five years from now? How often do you allow yourself to think from from I don't know, hell, five weeks from now? Future self thinking? We have a hard time getting past our present emotions, our present circumstances, our present conditions. You understand what I'm saying. Presently, What do I feel like doing? What's easiest right now? What brings me relief today? Which squeaky will is gonna get the grease today? But when you are a builder, and that's what we have to do, like we are when we're coming in here and this is the honest to God truth, we are moving into the mode of a builder, like we are moving into modes of building. You feel me, we are moving into modes of building in sister just said definitely daily decisions. I'm so grateful today doesn't look like five years ago, you feel me. Everybody coming in and dropping the daily King Vonnie even slid into accountability on my. Ass daily Daily, Daily, Daily. Salute for us a sniper, I see you in the building. What's up with you, homie? Shout out to everybody taking the time to tune in live, I really truly genuinely appreciate it. Salute to my replay gang man, what's up with your replay gang and full of full effect? And shout out to the podcast family Melae for me lea hashtag junior mafia man, my first love when it comes to the content creation, Salute to the family. Builders. When we move into being builders, we're asking what does the future version of me need? You understand what I'm saying, the future you, What does the future you need? Yeah, the future you needs your discipline today, you feel me. The future you needs your consistency today. The future you needs your boundaries today like the future you needs your preparation today. You understand, and you don't feel five years from now. You feel right now. You understand what I'm saying. You don't feel five years from now like you literally feel right now. And that's why most people unconsciously sabotage tomorrow because we're feeling today. You don't feel five years from now, Like what does your life look like five years from now? You ask the average person like right on hand, like, because how old you're gonna be from five years from now? And they're like, they don't even think about it. You understand what I'm saying, Yeah, like you feel right now. You don't think about five years from now. You don't feel five years from now. You feel right now. And that's why we sabotage unconsciously. But this is the thing, right, and this is where I had to come to and realize in my life. Right, you are either investing in your future self or you're stealing from them. You're either investing in your future self or you're still in from them. One of the two. You either investing in them or you're still in from them. Yeah, five years ago where you are right now, you were either investing in yourself or stealing from yourself. That's why we can go back and say, hey, man, bro, if I only would have knew this man. Five years ago, you feel me boxing a barbecue. Man. If I knew this five years ago, man, you're either investing in your future self or you're stilling from them. If I only knew, like if I only would have been thinking, if I only would have been paying attention, you understand what I'm saying. I remember when motherfuckers was trying to get me to buy big coin, when bigcoin was shit less than a penny. You understand what I'm saying. You either investing in your future self or you robbing them blind ski masking up, y'all, ski masking hard. You either investing in your future self or you ski masking real ski masking. You understand what I'm saying. And I hate to. I hate to. I don't use the I was about to say, pooh, shysty, but I'm tired of using all these modern times to describe. Shit we've been doing. We've been, we've been with, We been knew what it meant when a motherfucker put a ski mask on. We been knew what it meant. You understand what I'm say. Some of us been in the hash ski mask shit. Some of us still got a ski mask. You know I'm subject to come in here and go laugh with my ski mask on. Tay Tate said, nah, not the ski mask. Wait, Tayte, you already know how we coming. Hey man, I put the ski mask on, ay Man, ay man, be about it. Fences coming in, dropping what it is? He drops. Learn to use claud open claud chat GBT, or you'll be left behind in the old analog world and passes by the new digital one because the digital world is upon us. Yeah. Boxing the barbecue said, when they turn fifty five, they gonna be wishing they put money away instead of buying all that shit that don't matter. You feel me, all of that. Goofy shit and not even fifty five. I think about myself, man, all the money out in bleuugh ski mask o, ski mask in my self? Man, I would ski mas h. Well, I put a kicked on my damn self. You either investing in your future self or you robbing yourself the ski mask way in my tay Tay Brown voice, Yeah the ski mask way? N Why the NYC sk ski mask way, baby kid said, don't let that. Don't let shit get critical ski mask up. I don't even know no other way, kid, I don't even know no way, black mass, black gloves type shit. I don't know no other way. Yeah, what they say, I'm gonna rob me a person, man, the ski maskway, I don't know, man, I don't know no other way, yud. So it's the future version of you walked in the room right now. I promise I'm not high. I promise I'm not. I'm high on life, but I promise I'm not high off no mind or move often chemicals, a little caffeine. Right now, you understand what I'm saying. But if the future you walked in the room right now, would they thank you or confront you? Based on your habits? You feel me and we can just start from twenty twenty six here instand I'm talking about. So if your future, if your future, if you're five years from now self walked in the room right now today, would they thank you or would they confront you? Because I'm trying to tell you, if I could go back five years, man, my stef man, I would show up. Boxing and barbecue. I would literally show up with my rival box and gloves on bro hand wraps and all mouthpiece and all we gotta get busy. I would show up with me. It wouldn't be no talking either. It wouldn't be no talking either. I would show up with myself, hand rap glasses, I mean a glut, knock glasses, hand rap gloves, mouthpiece. Kid said, both of them, thank you and confront you. Boy, that's heavy. Both of them would thank me and come front me, and I'll beat the hell out of my old self. I really would. But I need you to sit on that. You feel me. If the future version of you from five, your five year version from you, the five year future, the future version that you walk in the room right now, would they thank you or what they confront you? Let that be your guy in light looking at us like, let that be your Let that be your guide in light? Yeah? But all right, man, So we do it for the culture. Let's talk about something the culture hates. The culture hates and this is what Boxton Barbecue is talking about. The culture hates the lay gratification. We have come to hate the lay gratification. We live in an instant world. You feel me, everything's instant. I call this the microwave era, meaning I was around before that was microwaves. Kid, You understand on time. I was around before there was microwaves. I was around when you had to heat your leftovers up in the foil pipe, pin in the oven. You see what I'm talking about. There was no microwave, There was no microwave. We had to heat our leftovers up in the oven. Yeah, take your time. It was a slow drip. So I'm one of them, So I'm not really moved too much by instant gratification. I'm a delayed gratification person. You see what I'm saying. Kid, y'all don't hear me though, Take tay. I remember when there was no microwave, baby, Yeah, but now we live in this instant world, instant entertainment, instant validation, instant food, instant opinions, instant dopamine. Listen to me, my kids. I drive my kids crazy because I make them watch television the regular way. They still extreme and stuff too. But I make them watch television the other way they don't, and that I still use the oven two kid, like a motherfucker. But they don't understand, like like how you can sit here and you can watch your show, like you can watch a whole show and you can watch all of the episodes like nah, Like y'all remember ten episodes used to take like twelve weeks because they would have a couple weeks in there where they would skip episode where they would skip a week, take a week off. Now like ten episodes used to be like twelve weeks. That was the season you feel me? Yeah? Yeah, yeah, yeah yeah A Thrive and Glow and Joe with Joe says, I was around when there was no road wrong control. Nah, you had to you had to go to the analog TV and you had to go turn the knob on it, and you had two knobs. There was a knob at the top and the knob at the bottom, and you had to turn them to get the TV. The TV's with the rabbit ears. And then when we did have cable, it was a cable box with the little zipper thing on the on the joint and the numbers was lit up and you had to go get the cable box. There was a long wire cash attached to the cable box so you can move it around the room eventually, but I remember being able to go the channel. You understand what I'm talking about. I also remember my daddy them jail broke or did whatever they did to the cable box so that he could watch Playboy. You feel me, wasn't no good playboy? Then it was just a whole bunch of white people having sex. But it was what it was. But we had all the channels because my daddy and them did what they did with the remote, but it was the remote with the wire. Yeah. So I'm not really moved by the instant gratification. You understand what I'm saying, Like, I'm not really moved by it. But delayed gratification. See, growth is delayed, results. Delayed. You feel me. Respect like with me, respect like I lead with a surface level of respect. You feel me. It's surface level of respect, but the deep down ingrained respect delayed. Peace. It's just it's delayed. Yeah. Yeah. And most people fail not because they incapable, but people fail because they want outcomes faster than their systems can mature. And that's in the in the truthfully, I won't even say mature. They want outcomes faster than their systems can be established. It's more like it because the majority of us don't even have the systems in place. Kids said, y'all have money, money, we ain't no money. We ain't no money. Money lived in Valerie Arms. My daddy had Kate, but it was just me and him, so she and he was. A working motherfucker, so baby, mm hmm, all things considered, but we had to but we don't get it. Don't get it messed up though, because I still had the We still had the TVs with the knobs, and when the knob broke off, you put the boss scripts on that motherfucker. Still. Yeah, we still had TV on tenas with the with the aluminum full on it. Mm hmmm, back when TV used to go off at midnight. Yeah, So delayed gratification, right, delayed gratification is choosing, is choosing to work out over ozempic. You know what I'm saying, what I'm talking about, Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah yeah. It is choosing savings over in post bodies. Right, It's choosing preparation, uh over panicking. It's choosing to study over scrolling. It's choosing silence over reaction. You ever noticed how all the ship is going on in the world. You come over here and I'm over here talking about self mastery. I ain't reacting to the bullshit every now and again, I get sucked in. I recorded a video about this, about Corey Holkele. Select Corey Holkle. I recorded a video about Corey Holkem and you know shit that's going on with him, and you know my disdain for some of his shit. And I never uploaded it. You understand what I'm saying. And I said I was gonna upload it over on the Simple Truth Network for the family. But I'm like, I don't really want nah man. But it was a conversation from a self mastery point of view, But I still just. Nah. Because the world wants us to react. Everybody's become so reactionary. Everything is all about reaction. I'm cool, Saluta, big days, kunking down in the building. What's up with your homie? Salute? Saluta? Is it not a eighty six ninety seven? Nata? Salutor? Not a eighty six ninety seven or might be now, I don't know, Salutor not not. I we're gonna call it nada. I don't know. Now that kind of sounds like a woman, so I'm not sure if you're a woman or not. Let me see that looks like a I can't see the eyeglasses. That looked like a dude though, with the let me not say that because it might be a sister and she'd be offended. I see the shades though, Saluta nada. Yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah, yeh yeah. I'm a man, he said, I'm a man. Salute brother, what's up with you, hommy? There we go. I'd be liking I'd be liking to know you feel me because it's already hard enough because you know, people be me and folks be coming in here pretending to be women. Ship shit. Thene got weird. It then got weird in the world wide web these days. So salute nada. I appreciate it. Hopefully I'm pronouncing it right. Man. Salute though, family, I ain't seen you around these parts, so I appreciate you. Falling through. Kids said, hey, bro chill, I ain't finish che I'm finna tell you the truth. These it be. It be men be in here pretending to be women's They come in here, they be a snow queen. You know, you know you niggas got a man. I'm about to we're about to go off the rails. Were about to go off the rails, So y'all put on your seat belts. Real quick. You know you niggas, y'all like white women, you undertand I'm talking about and then and you get a white woman and she come in here and pretend to be thick, and shit, I don't know how to fuck y'all. A motherfucker pretend to be thick on the World Wide Web. But it be whole men's coming in here. And they name be a snow Queen forty six. Nah, snow Queen sixty nine or snow Queen sixty eight. You owe me one. You know all that old whole ass shit. And y'all niggas be in here going berserk, you feel me. And then y'all go and see if she got an ig, and oh shad, y'all get on the ig. You understand what I'm saying. And then you sick fucks go over there, and you got the nerve to get in the inbox inbo like bro, you know them was pictures is them, pictures is from the Internet. And now bro, we got dal Lea Daalley is out here, man. You understand, Hey I is out here, man, Hey I is out here. Man. You got to be careful. You're gonna get yourself tricked. Fuck it's trouble man Tuesday. Man, so we might well tell the truth and we're gonna go off the rails real quick. You're gonna get yourself tricked up, man, and y'all is out here tripping so listening. Let me see it, Let me see it. And then they sending y'all somebody's pictures of somebody's body, and y'all be going for it. Man, you're gonna get yourself drug. You're gonna go out and fly to meet that boy man and you gonna get They're gonna tie you up, fuck you and rob you. Man. Y'all gotta be stop being so thirsty on this internet. Man. The Internet is a weird place. It ain't regular. Hopefully y'all not listening to me at work on the loud speaker. If you is, fuck it, man, the internet is a wild place. Man. You're gonna get tied up, fucking rob man. They gonna get your organs, bro, Stop playing around, man, what is y'all doing all Because snow Queen sixty eight put a pitch up of a thick old white woman and she rapping motherfucking fat pack and y'all asses the then went crazy. Man, you out your fucking mim ma, and she didn't quote it Tupac and you didn't win crazy And it's a whole, dude, it's a whole middle aged white man, a balding middle aged white man. You feel me, A fucking six', one a three point, fifteen you understand on timing about and he's and he's sitting there eating string, cheese chatting with you on the. Internet, man y'all be. Tripping, bro y'all be, tripping And i'll be seeing. It that's WHY i be Hopefully LOLA I d come in. Here that's WHY i be sad ways a lo LA I d like nah man like, BRO i ain't even shit because after for a long TIME i Thought la LA I d was a. DUDE i ain't even sit here and hold, you AND i still ain't for certain If i'm telling y'all the. Truth i've been telling LA I d that she needs to send, something she needs to send a picture or something to let everybody. Know did she, hey, man. Let us know she's a she's a woman and not no. Dude, yeah they didn't invite, them. Motherfucker they be in whole. Relationships, man y'all be tripping, bro y'all be. Tripping, SEE i learned my lesson early. MAN i used to. DO i did the date the telephone dateline shit WHEN i was a. Kid you understand What i'm. SAYING i did the tellor the telephone date line. Shit AND i WAS i met this lady on the dateline. SHIT i had to be about about eighteen. Nineteen you feel me If i'm telling this. True by eighteen nineteen met her on the phone, line dateline. Shit you, UNDERSTAND i was about twenty and So i'm, like, yeah we fit the hook. Up she, Talking, yeah, Yeah i'm. Thick i'm, This i'm that you know. Talking she went to uh went to uh Like, Dayton Dayton christian and shit like. That so she ain't she ain't been around the, city she ain't been ran through and shit like. That she describing, Me i'm light, Skinned Bay bay. Back Bay. Back i'm, like yeah. That so we go to meet. Up you stay, On i'm. Trying this is back in the days of. BEEPERS i had a, Beeper you understand What i'm. Saying so we get to we get to meet, up and we got to meet, up AND i didn't she didn't send me pictures of her. Cousin she. Didn't this is when you used to have to. Mail this was how we. Had it was slow. Macking while we talking about delayed. Gratification this was back in the days of slow. Macking, Nigga you ever wrote a, Letter you ever wrote a? Letter? Macin this was the slow mac had to. WRITE i had to write. Letters so she just send me pictures in the. Mail slow. Macking y'all ain't, man, y'all that's why y'all ain't lace like. Me we just. Ab that's why y'all little asses ain't, ace ain't lace like. Me. Man we had to do the slow mack. In King, vonnie you ain't never you ain't never had a pen. Pal, yeah it be about. It for as we had to do the slow, macking, BABY i had to get the pictures in the. Mail so she sent me. Pictures this hold is me pictures of her. Cousin you feel? Me so Then i'm looking. Cousin her cousin kind of looking like A i'm trying to think of kind of looking like a like a. Uh she kind of had like a little shanty, vibe little little, cute little brown, skin light, skin brown like brown citiation on peanut butter complex and some pretty. Eyes you feel? ME a b, SAID i wasn't. Taught, shrug, dang, brot why'ma give. You i'm gonna give you some news you can. Use, man the macing is. Slow i'm gonna give you some news you can. Use you got court, women Bro i'm gonna give you some news you can. Use but, anyway SO i Didn't i'm anticipating, you feel. Me so this brow meet up and she come to my. JOB i worked at a hotel at the, time so She i'm working this job at the front, desk ery. Thing you understand What i'm. Saying this motherfucker walked, in walked up to, me like You. CALVIN i look, like, nah, bitch it ain't. Me you feel. Man she walked, in that bitch looking Like. Walter, Oaks cuz she looked Like Walter, oaks big, old square, shoulders big burley. Motherfucker i'm, like what the fuck is this? About? Spelled she was about six about six foot, two sixty young Stand i'm talking about big burley. MOTHERFUCKER i, Said, OH i, said oh, no You, calvin this ain't. Me this ain't, Me nah, BITCH i Ain't calvin fuck is you think? This, no. She was operating under frost. Pretenses, man that was a. Catfish, yeah she gave me the old. School she gave me the old school. Catfish, bro she, catfish he, said she. Catfish you we used. To call that. Then, yeah if she gave me the fifty two, fake she gave me the fifty two. Fake man came in. There i'm, like, oh you ain't doing pictures. Now she could have been now to see the problem is you understand What i'm. Saying she should have just kept it all the way real with. Me you understand What i'm talking, about and we probably could have had some. Fun she could have kept it, real kept it one. Hundred but, NAH i. Can't why did she cat fish me via be a snail mail? Man she can't fished me via pony. EXPRESS i wasn't. Going you understand What i'm. SAYING i wasn't going. Kid, nah she looked Like Walter. Oaks that's that's A simbad for the y'alls that don't, Know, hey Little. Walter she came, In i'm a fucking looking Like. Simbad. Like, MAN i was. DISTURBED i was. Disturbed, MAN i was shocked and. Appalled you feel. ME i was shocked and. Appalled kidd, Man I'M i am WHO i, am And i'm from Where i'm. FROM i can't be walking around with. Simbad you understand What i'm talking, about, Man Big dad, SAID i talked to this girl for months UNTIL i went by her job and saw her and ghost to her after she kept asking, me DID i come to her? Job so you slid in and slid out on? Her you got a good, gainder you took a, look and you wouldn't. Hooked, yeah that's that old. School that's that old school. Man that's the lay. Gratification yeah, yeah, yeah yeah. Yeah but here's the deeper truth. Though the layed gratification is self trust in. Action you understand What i'm. Saying you, SAY i believe in What i'm. BUILDING i believe in What i'm. BUILDING i believe in What i'm, building And i've Been i've been that way for a very long. Time LIKE i don't have to even as a youngin you feel, ME i. Didn't i'm not a person LIKE i need to talk to. YOU i need to. Uh And i'm talking about with regard to, romance LIKE i got to build a relationship with, you you feel. ME i ain't never, REALLY i ain't got to jump your. Bones. NOW i really believe in What i'm, building AND i really understand WHO i. Am you understand What i'm, saying and to have entered into that them spaces with, me like you got to be a bad, Motherfucker like that's just, yeah you got to be a bad. Motherfucker you, understand AND i GOTTA i have a a a track record of just back my. Wife bad. Motherfucker you, understand bad. Motherfucker got to be, Bad Michael, jackson, bad got to be. Bad you got to be bad as, barbecue, intelligent put. Away you understand What i'm. Saying focus locked. In you gotta have. Substance, Nah so delayed gratification is self trust in, action like you're telling, YOURSELF i believe in What i'm. Building you. Understand and that's why for, ME i don't have a lot OF i don't have a lot of. Friends you understand What i'm. Saying you won't see me in varying social. Circles i'm Not i'm not around the who's. Who i'm not around amongst the popular. Folks i'm off in the cut, chilling AND i would rather be alone and authentic geting to be connected in fake AND i put a lot of people off with. THAT a lot of people be fucked up by. That Like i'd rather be alone by myself and solid than the motherfucker than connected with a whole bunch of people and. FAKE i don't care nothing about. TITLES i don't care nothing about the who's. WHO i don't care nothing about being around these folks BECAUSE i. Believe in What i'm. Building you feel, Me, yeah delayed, Gratification my shit gonna. COME i believe in What i'm. Building. Yeah so comfort. Now so operating in comfort now is going to cost you more, Later but sacrifice right now is going to pay. Later it pays more. Later. Yeah. Yeah so ask, yourself where in your life are you choosing comfort over your future? Strength where are you choosing for it over your future? Strength is it your? Money is it your? Health is it? Business is it? Relationships is it your spiritual? Discipline SOMETHING i don't talk about a. LOT i gotta get. Better is it your spiritual? Discipline name? It awareness comes? First, Man awareness comes? First be about a farce, said if we don't have a common outlook on. Life take your juice. Box gone ahead, on, Lady i'm, cool you feel. Me got to get on down the. Street you got to get on down the. Street, yeah but you got to realize think about where you're choosing, DISCIPLINE i, mean excuse, me where you're choosing comfort over. Discipline. Yeah. Yeah and the fact of the matter, is, man and we talk about, this and we're gonna continue to talk about, this And i'm ana scream this from the rooftops until it's over. With most people don't live. Intentionally you feel. Me we live. Reactively emails decide your, Schedule notifications decide your, Folks you feel. Me your moved decides your. Effort you understand stress decides your. Tone we are living on autopilot these, days like we are living on. Autopilot and intentional decision making means you predecide your, Standards you feel, Me you predecide your, boundaries you predecide your non. Negotiables you understand What i'm saying and for, me so it's like a non. Negotiable you can't be, no you can't be no dramatic motherfucking around. Me you can't be no dramatic motherfucking around. Me you can't be you can't not you can't be a wishy. Washy you can't be wishy. Washy if you wishy washy with, me that's an absolute non negotiable Because i'm, Solid you feel, me AND i respect myself and my solidarity enough to remove your wishy washy ass off from around. Me you can't be wishy washy around. Me you gotta be. Solid you can't be. Finicky you can't be one man that you have up one minut you down. Always you, know motherfuckers was always a, problem always that. You can't be. That. You, also you can't be a dramatic motherfucker around. Me you can't bring all that drama and shit around. Me you feel. Me you can't be, that. Period but that's me my intentional decision. Making SO i predecide my, STANDARDS i predecide my, BOUNDARIES i predecided my non. Negotiables you feel, me and so when my emotions show, up but the decision is already. Made. Decision when my emotions show, up my decision has already been. Made. PERIOD i try to live. Intentionally, Yeah. And, ultimately when it comes to, discipline what discipline Is discipline is predeciding who you. Are not negotiating with yourself every, day because that's what we. Do we negotiate with ourselves every. Day discipline is predeciding who you. Are you're predeciding who you actually. Like i'm already predecided WHO i. Am you feel? ME i am your self mastery provocateur. Extraordinary so WHEN i get up in the morning AND i don't feel like coming out here talking to y'all about self, mastery the decision has already been. Made i'm, here you feel. Me i'm here WHEN i don't feel like WHEN i, say, man this shit ain't making no. Difference these motherfuckers ain't gonna try to do. Nothing i'm just, talking or this ain't, growing or don't feel good or. WHATEVER i just don't feel like you. Today the decisions already. Made we gotta run. It you feel? Me we gotta run. It players, ball what's up with? You? Homie? Salute he? Said salute, man he, said you are in a whole nother zone this. Year. Salute salute to your. Family you already. Know, man we, going. Bro we gotta get there because we got to get better players. Ball we got to get better discipline is predeciding who you. Are not negotiating with yourself every. Day we got to stop negotiating with ourselves every, day. Period stop negotiating with ourselves every. Day. Yeah, so let me give you something. Practical we call it the news you can use and my legendary toopcast. Boys let me give you this something. Practical before you make a, choice you, ask does this move me forward or? Backwards be about a forms before we make a, Choice, bro does this move me forward or? Backwards you understand What i'm? Saying does this move me forward or? Backwards would the future me? Approve that's question number? Two would future me? Approve granted THAT i want to arrive here And i'm already there right so in this decision right, here would the future. Me approve of this or? Disapprove excuse? Me would the future me approved of this? Decision and then number? Three is AM i choosing relief or? Growth those are my three? Questions AM? I AM i choosing relief or? Growth? Man you can write them, DOWN i ain't mad at, you or you can come back and catch it with the forty about the forty seven minute. Mark three. Questions this is your. Framework this is the practical news you can. Use does this move me forward or? Backward that's question? One before you send that big head, text does this big head text move. You forward or? Backward are you moving forward or? Backward before you decide you're gonna you, finish go, go before you get ready to, decide you get ready to, go throw that thing and the, Sisters i'm gonna lay off y'all fellas before you decide if you fin to. Go if you cause some of y'all some gun, slingers before you get ready to go sling that gun before you What andre, say don't pull your thing out unless you ready to. Bang so if you get pull your thing out because you ready to? Bang does this move me forward or? Backward number? Two would the future met? Approve would the future me? Approve and number? Three AM i choosing relief. Or? Growth AM i choosing relief or? Growth three? Questions that's. It you don't need more. Motivation you don't need. Motivation your ass needs a. Filter you need y'all got quiet on. Me you need a. Filter you gotta filter this shit. Out you gotta filter. It you need a. Filter filter that those decisions with those. Three, Questions, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah yeah, yeah thriving glove With, joe trying to hear thank You, joe she, said oh great. Thought so our small. Choices, man let's zoom. Out let's zoom. Out let's zoom. Out one bad meal ain't gonna ruin. You you understand What i'm. Saying, Boy, MAN i love me some fried. Chicken you hear. Me one bad meal ain't GONNA i ain't gonna ruin. You one misworkout ain't gonna destroy. You one scroll session ain't gonna break, you but repetition. Will. Right you don't build a future with, intensity you. Don't you build it with. Consistency it's consistency over. Intensity every. Trip that's A t, shirt. That's A t. SHIRT i need TO i need to write that. Down y'all gotta excuse, me, man But i'll be having. These i'll be having. THESE i GOTTA i gotta put that on the. Shirt hold, on, SORRY i really ain't. SORRY i don't. Care consistency. Over. Intensity we'll say sweatshirt because it's winter, time even though it's kind of. Warm but it's consistency over. Intensity every. Trip you'll see how my mind works. It shit's. Crazy nah nah. ID i was just talking about. You what's up with, you L. IDEA i hope all as. WELL i was, SAYING i hope you have a beautiful day in The Windy. City you build your future with, consistency and it's consistency over, intensity and consistency is simply repeated. Decisions it's just repeated. Decisions you're not stuck because of one. Mistake you're stuck because of repeated. Defaults your habits are your. Votes think of it that, way like your habits are your, votes and you are vote every day and your future is going to be the compilation and the results of your. Election that's just, it LOT. D i'm lying to you. All was sitting here talking about HOW i ain't sure you're a. WOMAN i ain't gonna go back into the, conversation but we was talking about getting trick fucked and making sure that when you say, hey queen and love and when you go to send meat shots via social, media uh via elon Musk, internet that you got to make sure you at least sending them to a. Woman, yeah. This is she said behind my. Back, NAH i knew you was. Coming we just we just we just we were speaking to the. Future we were speaking to the future of. You that's. It this is deeper than, Productivity, like this is deeper than. Productivity this is this, is this, is this. Is this is. Identity. Man when you choose with the, intention you are, SAYING i respect my, FUTURE i value my. Growth you FEEL i don't need immediate. APPLAUSE i build. QUIETLY i build. Quietly that's, maturity and that's leadership and, ultimately for, real for, real that's self, mastery. Man and that's. Rare that's that's. Rare, yeah that's. Rare that's. Rare, yeah that's. Rare like you don't need a new, year new meaning, Energy you don't need a new personality like you don't need all of these, things like you don't need that. Shit you need to notice the small choices that you're making on a daily, basis every day, period every, day and start asking yourself in these, moments which is WHAT i really want you to. Do start asking, yourself what future AM i choosing right? Now will the future me? Approve will the future me? Approve that's? It as matter of, fact that's WHAT i want you all to start working. On if you make a, decision will the future me? Approve that's. It start, small build. Awareness let's stack up these, wins, Man let's stack these. Wins because whether you notice or, not whether you notice it or, not like whether you notice it or, not you. Are choosing your. Future like you are choosing your, future and your future is, chosen and you are choosing it every single day and from this day. Forward, man just just choose on. Purpose just choose on. Purpose salute to you, all, Man thank y'all so much for taking the time to tune. In, man really truly genuinely appreciate. IT i APOLOGIZE i went so long AND i started so late BECAUSE i was messing with the, cameras So i'm back to working on the. Cameras but salute to you. ALL i really truly genually appreciate. Y'all, Man thank you so. MUCH a salute to everybody that shows love to The Black Gentleman Grooming. Company we do have a line of all, natural handcrafted grooming products specifically with you in, mind so be sure to come check us out www dot The blackgen dot. Com that's www dot The blackgen dot. 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