Your Life Is Obeying What You Believe About Yourself_

Deed massa happy feel yes, man, listen, what's up with it? Family? What's the damn deal? Man? What's up with you? What's up with you? Man? Salute for the family. I don't know what the world is going on. This is Junior the Truth man, and this is indeed Black Coffee Club Live Man host about yours truly Junior the Truth Man. Thank you all so much for taking the time to tuning in. Man, really truly genuinely appreciate you. Man. If I had a million times, I couldn't tell it all. Man. Apologies for my tarty h MAC decided to update. You feel me? My mac decided to update. So huh, you know you ain't nothing you can do with the update, but wait, you feel me? Ain't nothing you can do with an update, but wait. But salute to you all, man, Thank you all so much, man for taking the time. Really truly genuinely appreciate it. Once again, Man shout out to the most intentional morning circle on the planet. You feel me, that is you. Salute to you all, man, I really truly genuinely appreciate you all. If I had a million times, I couldn't tell it all man, So why try salute to you all, man, I'm a DJ host you the truth. You can follow me everywhere via social media. I can be found with the handle Junior. The Truth is j U n I O R t H E t r U t H. And that's over all the social media platforms, man, each and everyone. But if you're really looking for me, like, if you're really truly looking for me, then you can go ahead on man and bring yourself over to the hub www dot Junior the Truth dot com ar things Junior the Truth, Man. That'll get you everywhere you need to be as it relates to me. Man. But salute to the family. Hey, man, So let's just get to it, because I ain't got time. It's trouble man, Tuesday. I gotta put it. I ain't got time, so I gotta put it on your mand and then I gotta get back to the ground. So let me ask you something real quick. And don't answer this alloud, Kia, don't answer this alloud. Keep this close to your chest, keep your cards close to your chest. Does your life right now match what you say you deserve or does it match what you secretly believe you deserve? Does your life right now match what you say you deserve or does your life right now match what you secretly believe you deserve? I lose? Am I losing you all? Have I lost anybody yet? I know it's early in the show. Have I lost anybody yet? Because you know what we say we deserve and what we secretly believe we deserve, that that tends to be two different things. You feel me like that tends to be two different things. Because here's the here's the truth. Once again, answer that question for yourself. Does your life right now match what you say you deserve? Does it reflect what you say you deserve or does it match what you secretly. Believe you deserve? Because there's a difference. Now, If you can't be honest about that being there being a difference when it comes to those two things, then I'm telling you, man, you are respectfully, you are in the wrong place today. This is a This is this is trouble man Tuesday. We not come in the fuck around? You feel me? This is this is trouble man Tuesday. We not coming the fuck around? We not, man, we not. Does your life reflect what you say you deserve or does it reflect what you secretly believe you deserve? Yeah? Now the uncomfortable truth. Your life ain't random. Your life ain't random. It's not it's not random. And the results therein, like the results therein when it comes to your life, they're not accidental. They're not accidental, like the struggles that we face, like my struggles, My struggles are not unlucky. You feel me like I'm just not you know, people put stuff off. You know, y'all know, man, y'all, I don't gotta go all off into this. You know, people like to put stuff off like it's just you know, all the bad shit in life happened to them and nobody else but them, and they just really unlucky. It's always something nah nah, no, no, no, no, not just unlucky. My struggles they're not just unlucky. The fact is is that, man, this is difficult. My life is obane. My life is obaying. My life is being obedient, and it's being obedient. Our lives are obedient to what we believe about ourselves. Your life is being obedient to what you believe about yourself, not what you post, not what you say in public, not what you come on the internet and say, not what we say in the Black Coffee Club life, you feel me like not, that's not what life is obedient to. Life is obedient to what you believe about yourself. And that's the truth. And it's a very uncomfortable truth. If we were to tell the truth, that's a very uncomfortable truth. That's a very uncomfortable thing. You feel me. But it's trouble man Tuesday, So we gotta get to it. Life is obeying what you believe about yourself. Not what you post, not what you say in public, you feel me, not what you tell them people, Not what you tell your circle of friends, not what you tell your circle of influence, not what you what you dress up and what you present to the world. No, your life is obeying what you believe in private, when the doors is closed and the lights are off and it's you and your thoughts. That's what life is obeying. Your life is obeying that. Yeah, yeah, ooh, don't be bad at me, y'all. Don't be mad at me. You know, I'm a y'all know, I'm just you feel me, y'all know. I gotta give it to you, like I get it. Stem season everything, stem season everything. But the one thing we're not gonna do is We're not gonna come in here and play. We're not gonna come in here and play, not today and really truly not ever. Yeah, your life is obeying what you believe about yourself in private when nobody's looking. You understand what I'm saying. Man, y'all, welcome back to the Black Coffee Club Man the most like the absolute most intentional morning circle on the planet. Man, let's get it. One. So I'm hustled harder than the most. I'm a feast on these streets. Got a revolver I told for these niggas. Try to take me off the block where I pointed up daily Si Dailey's out the bottle of smoke. Man, that's don't feel good in the cold, you know, Man, that shows you. Blue to the family man once again one time? Most most a blue. Most poland from a flaming man, the Black constuff Man? Are they go out so much for everything? Kind of sad man put up on in the building. What's up with the family blop? Because I was wristens back to blue? Anybody bloup family? My sister yellows say they taste he out of in the building. I hope boysel have top all the color in the building. What's up blue? To your family so much? And had to know your lugs that I said, I it's the holding the building man. They would have been a cold good what's. Good with a man? My brother doing brot? They read if you is, you're a copy? I don't want to. Get you ain't doing a while coming here with a blasting a twenty. Dang look to blow with health. Or else might bring up building? What's up with you? Brother? Damn? Tiffy you is in the building? What's up with you? Love? Said, I'm gonna be mother from you? Oh no, I think yeah, I think, well, we're just gonna listen to this she heartstat what's up with you? Love? Tivvy two? I don't know if I spoke to you Tiffy two in the building. What's up with you? Love? Day New Days? I think I'm I think I'm muffled. Salute to you all, though, let's let's let's get that straight. Salute to the family, the most intentional morning circle on the planet. Thank you all so much. I believe when I that's a something interface, an interface thing on my end. So I got two different ways and I get the music into the stream so that one way I believe causes my mic to be mum. So we won't do it that way again. But salute to you all, Thank you all. Shout out to everybody that's in ab said you back. Yeah, okay, so I'm back. I'm back. Let's get to it, man. So let me frame this right, let me, let me, let me, let me frame this because one thing that we don't do in this world, especially as we as we move about the way that we all move about, right, and which is you know, essentially shit being on autopilot, you know what I mean for a large part. But one thing we don't do, man, is we don't really give enough credence to our beliefs and what it is that we actually believe. You feel me, So let me frame this. Your beliefs are like they're like the operating system on your on your computer. Like I just updated my Mac, just updated with a new rendition of the operating system, right, So, like your beliefs is literally like your operating system that's on your computer or on your phone. You don't see it, but it runs everything. You feel me, Your operating system actually runs everything. And if your system is broken, then every app is gonna glitch if everything is if if if your operation system is broken, then everything is gonna glitch. Nothing's gonna work right, Nothing's gonna work till it's to its full potential. Every app glitches if your belief If your belief system says I'm average, then guess what you're gonna live average. If your belief system says I'm always behind, guess what you're gonna always be behind. If your belief system says I'm not good enough, guess what You're not gonna be good enough? You feel me. If it says I don't deserve peace, then you'll sabotage your own peace. Can underscore what's up with you? Broke salute to your family. Yeah. If it says I gotta I gotta struggle to be valuable right, if your operations If your operation system says I gotta struggle to be valuable, kia noell of the great. If your operation system says I have to struggle to be valuable, right, then your ass will go around this world, create and struggle for yourself in order to be valuable. You understand what I'm saying, because once again, your habits don't start with discipline. You hear me saying once again. Maybe I'll stop saying once again because I don't want to confuse you are or I don't want to bore you all. You feel me, and I don't want you all to think what I say once again. That means that we don't need to listen, because every time it comes across, we need to listen every time it comes across. We need to pay attention every time it comes across. We need to lock in you feel me. Rather it's the rather it's the first time you're hearing it or the fiftieth time you're hearing it. Every time we hear it, we need to give it the respect that it deserves. You understand what I'm saying. It's like, I don't know if you see the neighborhood pit bull, y'all, Remember we grew up, y'all. Remember the dogs, y'all? Remember when the dogs used to jump the fence and we used to get chased, and you used to have to walk past the dog twice a day to and from school, sometimes four times a day because you might go out to play. And if you're going somewhere, like when I had to go, when I will walk over to fus house. You feel me. I had to walk past the Doberman picture on the corner. So no matter how many times you encounter I encountered the Dobam adventure. I gotta get that boy the appropriate amount of respect. You feel me. It's the same thing when we talk about this stuff. So I'm gonna try to catch myself when I say once again because I don't want to. I don't want to dilute the message because it doesn't matter if it's again, because the one thing you know about me is it's gonna. Be again and again and again and again because we gotta get this shit. You feel me. Your habits don't start with discipline, They start with belief, and most people never audit their belief system. Actually, the majority of people shout out to everybody that's catching the show live. Salute to everybody that's tuning in live. Thank you all so much, really truly genuinely appreciate it. Salute to the replay gang, everybody just catching the replay. Thank you all so much. Man, I really truly genuinely appreciate you that you know my replay gang is I'm talking about a Me and West boxing talk. Salute family, I'm talking about whatever, man, you feel me. I'm talking about thriving glow with Joe? Is she Michael Jackson bad because she be in here live commenting, making it do what it does. She go share the content and then she come back and catch the replay. Joe a bad motherfucker. Excuse my language, but it's trouble Man Tuesday. We own that. You feel me? Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah yeah yeah. She is Stormy be Man saluting my brothers. Stormy be Man in the building. Y'all be sure to go subscribe to my brother's Stormy be Man you feel me. Story. B Man said, why did the children yo Mama when when there running from that doll? Because my mo bad motherfucker. You feel me, Mama bad. You know a lot of kids, man, they grow up. You feel me. Mama the baddest motherfucker on the planet. You understand what I'm saying. Mama, Mama's everything. Mama's a bad motherfuck. Mama is superhero for a lot of people. You feel me, and she's treated as such from our in our in our culture. You understand what I'm saying. And to be honest with you, that's one of my big struggles with black feminine or the black feminist movement, or should I say the feminist movement and their abuse of black women. You feel me because our women are superheroes. They always been, but that's why they yell mama when they running from the doll. Mama shd superhero, Mama superhero. But now we got it when we no matter how many times we walk past that dog, we got to get that dog the appropriate amount of respect. You feel me so now and shout out to everybody that's catching this podcast, the podcast family my first loved me Lie for me Lee is salute to you all. Thank you all so much, no matter how you getting this content, man, thank you. I love you, and it ain't shit you can do about it. Now listen to me. So once again, I was saying that most people never audit their belief system, right art, which is our operation system, your own personal personal operation system. Now, this is the kick, this is the catch. The majority of us in here didn't realize you have your own opera eration system. You feel me, So you can't audit it because you never knew it existed. Right You didn't know that you had an operation system. You got your own OS. You feel me. You got your own OS, You got your own a galaxy. You feel me. Operating operation system, Yeah, you do. And all your operation system is is your belief system. What do you really truly believe about yourself? Yeah? And most people never audit their system. Never. They just keep updating apps on broken software. You keep updating and uploading apps on broken software. You feel me, never upgraded your software. Your software is outdated. You understand what I'm saying. Do you understand some of you are or some of us, excuse me, are running the operating system from two thousand and two. You understand what I'm saying. In two thousand and that's who I was, twenty five years old. It's twenty five years old, two thousand and two, still running the same operating operation system. It's twenty twenty six. I'm forty seven. Finna be forty eight next month? Man, I know I'm a fan. I'm about to be forty eight, forty eight of them. I watched the old video. I'm gonna share the video. I was going through my content and I watched the old video on myself. I don't even remember what I was talking about. What was I talking about? I was talking about a troll encounter I had with a troll on the on the on these platforms, and I was looking at myself. That video was eight years ago. She art stat eight years ago. I was forty when I made that video. You feel me. Beard was blacker than Midnight What. No, Yes, I'm talking about No Baggin. Ain't, no Nan Smiths, no, none of that. You feel me. Hairline was a little more intact. You understand what I'm talking about. I don't. I hadn't even I hadn't even had braces yet. You feel me. I hadn't have my braces yet. So I still have my I still have my cookie smile like Jacob. Yeah yeah, but still running, still running the old operation system. You have an operation system, and it's your belief system. Don't leave that out. So let's get real. Let's get real once again. Nobody is born believing that they're small, or believing that they're insignificant, or believing that they're not good enough. No one is born believe in that. You understand. Somebody downloaded that you feel me. Somebody uploaded that on your system. Somebody showed you that something happened to you. You feel me. Maybe it was a Maybe it was a parent that doubted you. Maybe it was a teacher who labeled you you feel me. Maybe a relationship that broke you. Maybe you had a job that minimized you. Maybe you made a mistake or a series of mistakes that haunted you, and without realizing it, without realizing it, you downloaded that story. You downloaded that app, you downloaded that system. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. Driving Glow with Joe, said my son listening, He just said, blacker than mid night. It is crazy, this is crazy. Work so little to your son, Joe. Yeah, blacker than men night, bro, little bro, blacker than me and right, yeah, and if it's really black, we say blacker than a hundred min nights. Man. But you downloaded that story. Man, I'm not enough. I'm always messing up. I'm just not good at that. I gotta prove myself. I'll never get ahead. I'm behind in life. I'm behind in life. Now I should I should let me let me virtually reach through the phone and grab somebody by the collar. I was gonna say, slap y'all, but I'm I'm I don't want to put my hands on you, So I'm gonna say let me reach through the phone and grab you by your collar. She heartstack. You're not behind in life. You're not behind two two five box and talk. What's up with you? Holp me. You're not You're not behind in life. I don't care what you see on social media. I don't I don't care what you see on on on Instagram. I don't care how many of your cousins are in Costa Rica riding on dolphins. You hear me and you and you trying to and you trying to piece it together until the next page. Check. I don't care nothing about none of that. You are not behind in life. Yeah. Yeah, somebody taught you that something somebody something happened, and that was uploaded to your operation system. Yeah, and now you are living inside that story. And it's not because that story is true. It ain't because that shit true. You're living in that story because it's familiar. It's familiar because it was uploaded to your operation system. It's there. Yeah. Yeah, So all right, let's. Let's let's let's get real for a second, and let's let's like we ain't already being real. I didn't cush'all out college. You ms all kind of stuff. But let's get real earth for a second. All right, let's look at how this works. Now, I'm talking about an operation system, right, talk about an operation a system. Because the title of the show, you see your life is obeying what you believe about yourself. It's flat out like it's And this comes from yesterday's show because I said something and everybody's kind of like, eh, I'm not sure, I'm not sure it's hit. I'm not sure y'all got it. I'm not sure. I'm not sure. We took it and absorbed it, you feel me. And then when I talked to some family it was, you know, it was a little not really struggle, kind of a point of contention if you will. So let's show how it works. If you believe I'm bad with money, you won't budget, you won't invest, you won't plan, you'll just say that's not my thing. If you believe you are not good at math, yeah, come on now, y'all. Remember being in school, y'all, remember how school algebra, college algebra? If you went to college, you remember. Statistics, statistic, statistic. I can't even say it, you know, good in the hell? Well to college statistics? College stats kicked you in your ass. Stats kick. Do you know how many people didn't graduate college because the stats stats kicked you in your ass repeatedly because you believed and you accepted, and you uploaded to your operation system that I am just not good in math. Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah. Stormy v Man said, putting the hands on them is what's needed, No, Diddy, When pops will reach out and grab suddenly, my intelligence level would elevate and I could comprehend messages untold it was telekinesis. Brother, Yeah, it was telepathic messaging you was receiving when your daddy grabbed a hold of you. You feel me. I ain't fnna laugh at you story because I'm an go on the coffee spell bro. But that's real rat. People need hands, We need hands, We need more hands. You feel me. That's what's wrong with your children. That's what's wrong with your sons. You need more hand they need more hands. Glow. I think driving arving glow with you. I think you used to beat the hell out your son. Though he looked like he got some fast whoopings. He looked like I could be wrong. He could be because you know, you could be no, I'm a hands off paring Joe. But I I. Don't know, Joe. You look like you don't play like. You look like you give out some of them, some of them them them me and evil ass whoopings. If you will you. Feel me, you look like you might get You might go there and you might give out an ancestral ass whooping here and there, you might tap into the lineage, you know what I mean. And then a big Joe as you call her, she was. She looked like she was heavy handed, she hit hard. You feel me, so I think you And that's a big old boy too. I think you feel me. You strike me as maybe having you know, put hands. That's what's wrong with our children partially, they need more hands, they need more direct contact. If you will storm me so that ain't an lie. Now, if you upload to your operating system that I'm just not good with math, then will you put the appropriate amount of effort into being successful in math? Think about it. Some of you all told yourself I'm not good at math. So you didn't study, you didn't try, You didn't go to tutoring when you were in college. You didn't go to the professor's office hours you feel me. You didn't go to the academic support. You feel me, didn't go to tutoring, you didn't partner with people in class, You didn't do any of those things. You just accepted that I'm just bad at math, and that was it. Math is not my thing, and you were. Cool with that. You feel me. If you believe I'm always late, then you're gonna always be late. You're not gonna set alarms. You're not gonna prepare ahead of time. You're not gonna iron your clothes at night so that in the morning you can get up and get emotion. You feel me. You're not gonna leave an hour early to get somewhere that only takes you thirty minutes to get, which is, if your operation system was different and you really respected your yourself and you realize how important your presence was, you would show up early. If you realize how important your presence is. SOALU to my brother boxing a barbecue in a building. What's up with you? Bro? All right? All right, all right, all right, all right. If you believe I'm inconsistent, you won't build systems. You'll just wait to be motivated. You understand what I'm saying. I'm not disciplined. You won't even try, and you'll quit before you start. Think about that, because some of y'all went and sat in that college math class with the mindset that I'm just not good at math, and you quit before you even started to before you even tried. You quit, You quit before you even tried. First first lecture of the year, first lecture of the class, and you in class quitting already. You quit. You already quit on the math class. You feel me, you quit on college algebra because you just accepted and you uploaded to your operation system that you're not good with math. You feel me. Yeah, you'll quit before you start, if you really truly, if you really truly, if you if you if you believe I don't deserve better relationships, right, I'm talking about all relationships, not just romantic ones, all of them. If you really believe old school instantly in the building. What's up with your family? If you believe I don't deserve better relationships, then you'll tolerate disrespect like you tolerate chaos. You feel me, you really will tolerate chaos. Let me explain to you what belief is. Belief is your operation system belief is the permission slit. You feel me, and your behavior follows what you think is possible for you, Tada. Your behavior follows what you think is possible for you. If you think something is impossible, then your behavior will reflect that. If you think you beating, you are. If you think you dare not, then you don't. If you like to win but think you can't, it's almost the sense you won't. That's one of my favorite poems. Another one, it's the man who thinks he can author unknown. Your behavior follows with you. What your behavior follows your belief system. My brother's starting me saying fast you your truth. He said I could have done better. I realized this in years of evolving. Keep stressing yes, indeed, yes, indeed, man, I could have done so much stormy bro. This is the conversation we'll have later. Bro. You feel me because I get up here and get the crying and hug it myself. Bro, there's so much stuff I could have done better, a bro, so much stuff I could so many ways I should have applied myself. You feel me. But I conceded to the operation system that I had uploaded, which was I wasn't good at that or I wasn't good enough, or I couldn't do something. You feel me for various reasons, whatever they were, whatever they were, Man, I got a whole diff I'm gonna tell the death. I'm gonna come do a video and tell a story based on this. I'm gonna tell a personal story based on this. I'm gonna do it in a separate video though. All right, here's the wild part. You understand what I'm saying. Y'all about to get mad at me, but it's cool hook off on me when you see me look off on me. Here's the wild part. You will fight to protect the beliefs that are hurting you. You will fight to protect the beliefs that are hurting you. If you say, I'm just not good at math and I push you, like, come on, man, were about to just work on this math? You will fight me to not work on math and to not get better. You will protect the beliefs that are hurting you. If you say, man, I'm just always late and YadA YadA YadA, and I say, man, give me your follow let me see your fosse so I can show you how to use this. Or here's a planner, man, get this planner. Start using this planner, come plug in with people that use it. You will fight me. You will fight me. I have people that I have put a planner. They're not good with time, not good with being where they're supposed to be, not good with keeping up with appointments and so on and so forth. And I put a planner in their hand and they say, Man, I'm just not good with planners. I just don't use planners. Yo, shit, fucked up? What you mean you don't use planners? What do you mean? What do you mean? Su To my sister Kia Alan, she says, you're absolutely right. My mother told us to always be the best. That translated to me not to do things I thought I wouldn't be great at. If you're gonna do it, do it, be the absolute best at it. And so what do you do? You only pick up the shit that you're good at. And when you pick up something and you're not good at it initially, then you stop. You won't try, you won't go through the riggers to actually become efficient in it. That's a cold piece. Ooh, that's a cold piece. That's a bar. That's a bar. Why you going there and grab dad Kia, why you going there and grab dad like that. That's a bar Ooh, that's a bar I need to click this, I need to clip this. You're absolutely right. My mother told us to always be the best. That translated to me, to me not to do things I thought I wouldn't be great at fuck. People will fight to protect the beliefs that are hurting them. Why because changes beliefs right, means you gotta change your identity. And identity change is scared in the motherfucker. You feel me, It's scared in the motherfucker. Kay, underscore, watch this, bro. Identity change is scary because if you admit that I'm capable, Right, if you admit I'm capable, now, you gotta stand on it. Now. You gotta stand on it now. You gotta show the fuck up. Now, you gotta be there, and you gotta walk that walk. You feel me, you gotta walk that walk. Yeah, Kia, I'm sweeping your step. I'm sweeping your sea. You know, I know you personally, I'm sweeping your step. Nah. If you go and say, man, I'm dope as fuck your teacher, now, your punk ass got to show up every day, day in and day out. The world needs you to be who you are. You gotta show up. That's scary. Nah, that's scary. Nah. Nah, you feel me. If you admit, man, I deserve more than this bullshit, now you gotta level up, like you really gotta show up and you really gotta change shit. Ab ab If you say, man, nah, man, I deserve more than this. I could do so much more than this. Now you got to show up and you gotta level up. Yeah, yeah, so let me get it. Let me get in my own Let me get in my own wheelhouse real quick. While while I'm sweeping everybody else's step, let me sweep my own step. If if you admit I'm powerful, I'm powerful. Now, excuses don't work. Kg Now the excuses don't work. Once you admit, ah, man, I'm powerful. Nah, Now the excuses don't work. Ain't no excuse? What the what? What excuse can the motherfucker use? That's powerful? What excuse can I use it? I'm powerful and I understand what, I understand who I am and I'm a bad motherfucker? What excuse I got? What excuse can I possibly come in here with and give you all that will actually work? You understand what I'm saying, and that's why I sit on the sideline with the flu and coach my kids. So I'm a bad motherfucker. Michael Jackson bad. What excuse I got? What excuse I got? If I dead, I ain't done, fight dead, I ain't done. I got a shout out to the old dude. It's an old gentleman who I started listening. To his YouTube. That's what he says. That's his phrase. I'll put it. I'll send a link to his video. I'll share a post in the community to his content. Oh dude, he said, if you ain't dead, you ain't done. Motherfucking eighty years old and start a YouTube channel. Shalutoy man. I wish I knew his name, but nah, cuz if you ain't dead, you ain't done. What excuse I'm gonna show up with? KG says, that's a huge part, Junior, A new responsibility that you tried to hide from. Nah, bro it's been in you. You feel me. Ain't no hiding broke when it come out of your mouth. Now, I got to stand on it because if you don't stand on it, then you're not operating in integrity. So that make you a bullshit motherfucker. That make you a bullshit person. And I'm sorry for cussing it, and I'll be cussing y'll out with these self mastered conversations. I'm just passionate about what it is that we do, and I'm passionate about getting better you feel me, and hopefully you all share the same passion. Now, I'm a bad motherfucker kid, old school winstont Lyina. I'm bad as barbecue, bro. So what is that I cannot possibly give you all that will actually work and stick? It ain't none, no excuses work. So instead of that salute to the homid man junior in the building, what's up? What you broke? So instead of that, people say, this is just how I am. You feel me. We pick up different distractions, we pick up different devices you feel me, We pick up different coping mechanisms. This is just how I am. No, that's not how you are. That's how you've been trained. Rather it's by yourself or or somebody else. This is just my personality. I call bullshit. That ain't your personality? You feel me, that's your comfort zone. That's your comfort zone. Yeah, ain't your personality. That's your comfort zone? This is just my luck. This is what people say, This is just my luck. Nah, Cuz nah, that's your belief system talking. That's just you're limited. Your very limited belief system ain't got nothing to do with your luck. The truth is there's no such thing as luck. But that's a whole other conversation. Because luck is where preparation meets opportunity. You understand what I'm saying. So you get to a space and you're unlucky, then goddamn it, maybe you just wasn't prepared. Maybe just maybe, just possibly, you didn't do the preparation work. Maybe you didn't do the preparation work because of your belief system, because of your operation system, because somewhere you were told that you just weren't good enough. So when you got the opportunity, because all lucky is is where opportunity meets preparation, So when you got to the opportunity, you weren't prepared, you feel me, And it's probably just possibly, maybe because of your belief system. Possibly. All right, God, excuse me, I've been holding up. I've been holding that confidence spell for about. How long? But he that cofferin spell jumped up on my ass, saluted my brother D Man Junior. He said, I ain't think of it like that till now. Yeah, that's it. Why you gotta why you gotta get in here, Jay Reid, you thought I wasn't gonna give you nhe because you're my brother? Is you a cop? Jay Reid, ain't senior? A while? D Man Junr? Is you a cop? You ain't no cop? You on that? You on that, on that Gooseman, on that Joe Goosen Gooseman. You know Joe Goosen is a boy. That's that's for real. He he an undercover, He a double agent. After this, mind you a cock? J Reed salute to my brother D Man Jr. I can't wait to get in here and talk box. And I'm finna go off. That's a whole other conversation. I ain't finna pick that up right now, just maybe, just possibly right when that opportunity presented itself, you just weren't prepared for. It has absolutely nothing to do with luck. Fuck luck. Luck is where opportunity meets preparation, and when an opportunity presents itself, you better be prepared. You understand what I'm saying, and that's what you do. KA underscore when you when you when you say I'm powerful, that means when the opportunities presents themselves, you got to be ready. That's why my clips stay loaded. You feel me, That's why my clips stay loaded when an opportunity presents itself. Shit, I gotta be ready because my clips supposed to be loaded. Yeah, because I said I'm a bad motherfucker. Yeah. Yeah. Let's do something real quick. Pay attention this week to your inner voice. When you fail at something, when you're tired, when you're stressed, what do you say to yourself? You understand what I'm saying. When something don't work out, do you say I'm trash? I knew I fucked this up. I'm always late. I'm not build for this man, I never change. It's over. That's programming. You feel me. Every time you repeat it, you reinforce it. That is your operation system. And I'm gonna tell you the truth. Just like everything else. Awareness is step one, you feel me, because we can rewrite the program. We can rewrite the program. Yeah, but you can't rewrite what you don't notice. You cannot rewrite what you don't notice. Awareness is step one. Now here's the shift. Let's get to it because I gotta go and we gotta go over to Drew Titans and bring down a property value. Here's the shift. You don't change by hyping yourself up like this ain't hype. You don't change by hyping yourself up. You change by choosing new standards, not affirmations. Stop all this fucking talking. We gotta stop all this talking. It's actions, soothing, my brother be about a farm in the building. Actions. You start saying I'm someone who prepares, then you but go prepare. You can't say I'm someone who prepares and then go sit on your big ass you feel me, or then go sit down with your big ass you feel me. You gotta say I'm someone who prepares. Then you gotta take your punk ass out somewhere and you gotta go prepare you feel me. Yeah, I'm someone who shows up, Then you gotta go show up. I'm someone who honors my word, then you gotta go honor it. I'm someone who's solid. Then you have to go and move as a person who's someone who's solid. Because identity is built through evidence. You old, that's a bar identity. Let me let me, let me, let me highlight that right now. Yeah, hear me, I be in the zone. Your identity is built through evidence. It's built through evidence. Man, your identity is built through evidence. You feel me evidence. You can't just. People say any damn thing. People will say anything, but your identity is built through evidence. You feel me. You know, people talk shit to you and tell you who they are and what they doing. Then you sit back and you just look like okay. Identity is built through evidence. Small wins. Kept promises, daily discipline, consistency, every kept commitment is proof, and proof rewrites your system. I don't even think I need to run through that again. If you need to hear that again, which I'm pretty sure you do, you need to run it back at the at the we'll say the forty six minute mark. Small Wins. All right, I'm gonna leave you with this. Every day. We are training ourselves and we are training who we are. Every day, I am training who I am. Right every day, I am training who I am with every one of my choices, with every excuse, with every delay, with every follow through. I'm voting for an identity like you are voting for an identity. Every day, you are training yourself on who you are. It's a choice. Everybody be wanting to. Fight me on that. Now you choose, You get to choose. You choose your identity. Like your identity is a choice. I had a video coming up on that. I can record it yesterday. Your identity is a choice. You choose your identity. So ask yourself, who am I becoming? You feel me? Not someday. The hell with the someday because. We get to we get to mystified and we get to hide when we do the someday talk, not someday. Were talking about right now, saluting my brother Box and the barbecue Salut family. Right now, right now, who am I becoming? With my habits, with my routines, with my boundaries, with my discipline, Because ultimately, your life is listening to you and it's obaying. Like your life is obye, it's responding to what you believe. Your life is responding to what you believe. So if you want something, if you want something new, Joe, if we want something new, then we gotta start with a new story. You feel me, Then we got to back the new story up with action. We gotta back the new story up with action, intentional action. Salute to your family, Thank you all so much man. Uh, this is the Black Coffee Club Live. Man. Y'all know we don't we don't. We don't just talk, man. We ain't just talking about change. We're just not talking about self mastery. Man, We're practicing it. Yeah. Yeah, Salute to you all, man. I really truly genuinely appreciate you all. If I had a million tongues, I couldn't tell it all. Man. Yeah, I couldn't tell it all. Misms, King Vonnie and mother fucking my identity, shape my standards. Yeah, my brother boxing and Barbecue said just an FYI the people that's supposed to get it and open their hearts and mine will salute. I needed that, bro, because I'm frustrated in the motherfucking I'm frustrated with people. I needed that and I'll received that, bro, And I appreciate that family, I do. I do. Salute to you all, man. I really truly genuinely appreciate you all. If I had a million tongues, I couldn't tell it all. Salute to everybody, man, Thank you, thank you, Thank you out to everybody that shows love to the Black Gentleman, Groom and company. This this this show is sponsored by the Black Gentlemen Grooming Company. 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